I have so much weight to loss and I am having a hard time.....I do not want to 'go there' but I was wondering; HOW did you get to THAT point? I mean, did you start on just wanting to get to a certain weight and it got out of hand? Do you KNOW that you're anorexic/ and or bulimic? Do you try to maintain a healthly weight? I am asking cause again, I dont' want to go there, but my mind is like this is the only way, then once I get to my goal weight I will be okay and can eat NORMALLY again....
2006-11-24 10:20:34 · 10 answers · asked by nici a 2 in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
Look child. F that. Stop trying to be a stick. You did not gain weight over night and you will not loose it over night. It will probably take you 3 times and long to loose it as it did to gain it. I know. I used to be super skinny, and I an now like a size 14/16. I would love to loose 40-50 pounds and be a size 8, but I must learn to love myself no matter what weight I am. I have lost and gained over the years, but I have learned from all success and failure. You will derail your efforts if you stop eating or start throwing up. Not only will you loose fat, but you will loose muscle. You need to build up your muscle first by doing some resistance training so that you will burn more fat while you are at rest. You may also need to try a diet program like weight watchers or myonlinefooddiary.com. Remember we gain and loose sometimes because of stress or depression. You need to heal your inside first before you focus on your outside. Once you love yourself being big, you will see how many other people love big women too. Be good, and think about it please.
2006-11-24 10:33:24 · answer #1 · answered by ShacklesOff.com 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First, please talk to someone who can help you loose weight the right way. Anorexia and Bulimia not only destroys you physically, but it also a life sucker for who you are. And yes, you know when you have these issues. I know because I knew. You know that you have them when all you can think about it loosing weight. Alot of times people make the mistake of thinking that anorexia starts when you begin to starve yourself or actually stick your finger down your throat. But it's not true! Anorexia and Bulimia start in your mind. It is the idea that life will be great and worthwhile, the moment you feel fat free. It is a terrible obssetion. You think that when you loose weight, you will experience such freedom from your body and be unstoppable and attractive. But it is rather the opposite. Although you can fit into anything, anywhere...it is a mind addiction...all you think about is how to burn the most calories...how to eat less and less...the mirror is your only friend at the time.. you are in a constant loss of self esteem...You wonder when your body will finally fail...your heart will stop beating...and your mind will crack. i only got over it through a matter of knowing I had to be saved...Seeing my worth...I ended up gaining alot of weight. And then a couple years later worked my butt off at the gym...and ate Really good food...I looked soo good! I know its hard, It takes a long time.. but I was strong, and healthy. My suggestion? Talk to someone, In Person, a close friend, family or best a professional. Tell them that you need help. Tell them exactly what you wrote. Exercise and heathy eating, But mostly, KNOwing HOw Much YOU are Worth, is the right way to go! I know it some times fells like FOREVER to do it the right way...But you are worth it! Sorry I wrote so much. I guess it just was such a waste of my life and I dont want anyone to go through this! I hope the BEST for you!
2006-11-24 19:30:23 · answer #2 · answered by Freedomfly 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Never become Anoraxic or bulimic. It can cause so much damage to your body and you can even die! Also, once you start doing that and eat normally you will probebly gain all the wieght you lost plus even more because your body was in starvation mode. Please don't risk your life to be skinny.
SKINNY ISN'T ALWAYS HEALTHY. Start excersizing,eating only when you are truelly hungry,drink more water and if you feel like you need a little more help talk to your parents about seeing a nutritionist or a doctor can recomend one for you.
2006-11-24 10:31:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alright, first off, being anorexic is when you starve yourself to lose weight. I think that you probably wouldn't know unless someone told you or you read somehtnig or whatever. To avoid it, I think that a good remedy is to think of your fave foods and bring your friends along to eat out with you. Ask them if they could be your accountability partners and tell you when your eating too much.
As for bulimia, that's when you eat a lot of food really quickly and then barf it all up. I think you'd probably know if you were bulimic. To avoid, I think you should think how gross throw-up tastes and who'd want that?
2006-11-24 10:32:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. You won't be able to eat normal again, unless you get therapy to get you off of purging. How do I know? My mom was there, and it was miserable. She only wanted to lose ten pounds, but it didn't stop there. She WANTED to stop, but she couldn't. Her body didn't let her. And the more she did it, the more hopeless she felt, and the more it felt like throwing up and starving herself was the only answer to getting better. She had to get hospitalized, get put on pills, and she still takes the pills.
Yes, you would know if you were anerexic. So there.
2006-11-24 10:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Just Another Broken Heart♥ 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i'm happy to assert that i'm interior the restoration levels of anorexia. yet hiding my ailment substitute into undemanding first of all because of the fact i substitute into residing with flatmates who did not pay any interest to my eating conduct. The as quickly as I returned abode I continuously made my very own nutrients and ate in diverse rooms and pronounced i could had greater advantageous than i myself had. it somewhat is till I awoke and observed that fooling human beings wasn't particularly doing any solid. i substitute into mendacity to myself and hurting myself in basic terms. 'Getting away' with mendacity to my mum and her not looking out how little i could eaten gave my 'inner anorexic' one in all those severe that it continuously felt nicely worth it. yet now I also have a actual life and not controlled with the aid of the ailment. I choose lots that i'm able to make particularly everyone else greater advantageous too so they'd see how impressive life could be with out an eating affliction!
2016-10-13 01:17:39 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know it, or think it tell someone and get help. If you eat and vomit or do not eat trying to lose weight it will not last, and you will get sick in the end. there is no way to go back to eating normal
2006-11-24 10:31:20 · answer #7 · answered by SWRK student 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
just go and be anorexic or bulimic.
everyone needs to destroy their body at some point.
=]
xxxx
2006-11-24 12:52:33 · answer #8 · answered by richard bucket 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
wow you are a ******* loser if you think that is the only way, go diet and eat proper and get that fat *** off the chair and go work out.
2006-11-24 10:24:02 · answer #9 · answered by chris b 1 · 0⤊ 6⤋
then start losing 30 lbs!
are you fat?
2006-11-24 10:23:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 6⤋