What do women want in a guy ?

Question

I am in my thirties and have tried using dating sites , social functions , day to day activities but I just can't seem to click with any girl that interest me. The ones that are interested have multiple kids , money issues , or are slobs. What does a guy need to be to attract a decent female? Serious answers are appreciated! Thank you

Answer 1

You can't be happy with anyone else until you're completely happy with yourself. Just concentrate on you for awhile instead of finding someone else. Do things/activities that you enjoy, become balanced, healthy, and happy and these qualities will naturally start to attract women. Surround yourself with good friends, keep yourself busy, and before you know it you'll meet that special someone. I've noticed that I always find a keeper when I'm not looking and least expecting it. Good Luck!

Answer 2

Yor problem is in your question man. You stated that the only girls who you are interested in have kids and yada yada. That is the only part i needed to hear. Beggers can't be choosers. Kid are great. Remember, you were a child at some point. I think that if the woman is attractive to you either phyically or personality wise, then you should give her a chance. No matter what baggae she has. I am only 24, but I know enough about women to know that sometimes the best qualities in a woman are the things you don't like at first. Kids? Financial problems or otherwise. Give them a chance. How would you like it if some lady was attracted to your personality, but can't stand that you have brown eyes( or whatever color they are)? My advice is to not be so picky and just enjoy your time with them. Because all women are different and you can learn something new with every date.

Answer 3

I can name several things that seem to work every time. The first impression they get is usually your key. You have to have confidence in yourself, though not so much you're overbearing. The relaxed clothing is fine, with your friends, but when you're trying to get a girl, show you have some pride in yourself...perhaps slacks and a dress shirt, tie optional. You have to show interest in who she is, not what she looks like naked; yes, that means you have to be able to listen and respond, a daunting task I'm sure. Beyond that, women are individualistic and may not all like the same things. A sense of humor is usually a good thing, but don't be overbearing with that either. Fortunately, since I am a fairly sarcastic person, my girlfriend likes the sarcasm and even has her own sarcastic retorts. Oh, I should probably mention that you have to stay relaxed and be yourself...and not to be too awefully forward.

Answer 4

I just met a guy a few months ago in his late 30's. I told him I was attracted to him. that seemed to be license for him to play a bunch of stupid games. I don't have kids, I own my own home, I make my own living, and I was willing to say I was attracted. Now, why would a grown man decide that that all deserved some wierd game worthy of a 6th grader? Are all men in their 30's and 40's damaged beyond repair? Seems that way. Check yourself and see if you play games with women.

Answer 5

You are in your thirties and girls that age usually already have a couple of kids. Get some of your friends to introduce you to a nice girl, That is best way to meet someone that will approve of. Those dating sites hey'll tell you they look like
Angelina Jolie and when go to pick em up, they look more like Gravel Geirtie

Answer 6

Well most people who are in there 30's have experianced a lot. I have 2 kids, single and what single parent doesnt have money problems. When I date I dont expect the guy to come home and meet my kids right way. I am a decent person...so please dont judge us all_

Answer 7

I have found that funny guys always win. Of course you need to be somewhat attractive, but all girls just want someone to make them laugh. Don't take yourself to seriously- it's ok to make fun of yourself. Oh and don't wear tennis shoes when you go out- they are for the gym only :)

Answer 8

ok, well im only a teen, but i still know what women want in a guy, they want to see that he looks nice, and holds himself high, but not that he looks snobby, just that he looks like a fun guy, and not someone you want to avoid, wear nice clothes, dont just put on a t-shirt, try a suit depending on the occasion, or something nice, if you have long hair GET IT CUT long hair is only for teens, and even then its sometimes gross, make sure your hair is nice, and combed, not greasy and matted, and just be yourself, and be fun, and nice, and charming!
hope that this helps you out!!

Answer 9

Dress nicely, don't look like a slob yourself and be a litlle smooth, and a little romantic
PS: Don't be too romantic, girls hate that

Answer 10

Read this, and you will learn:

Me and my three friends (All in our late 20's) have formed a team to help out our neighborhood. I wear a Jar Jar Binks costume and am the leader. Then there is the guy who wears the Grimace costume, he is the strong man. Then there is the guy who is a convicted sex offender, he wears a trenchcoat like the matrix. And lastly, their is "The Professional", he wears a cardboard Burgerking crown and a fake muscle suit. We walk around town and knock on random doors. When the person answers, I dance and do a Jar Jar quote, then make a loud screech with an air horn. While the person is reeling from the sound, the sex offender confesses that he is a sex offender (as required by his parole). Then the grimace throws some leaves and dirt into the persons house. And lastly, Muscle King plays 'me so horny' on his boombox and we dance. We have done this to hundreds of houses. Are we some kind of kings? I don't know how?