My girlfriend got mad at me and left we talked before she left she said that she is willing to work things out. My first response was IM SINGLE!!!!! But now i realize that I love her. should i work things out when she said she was leaveing I was trying to think of who i should call tonight. she is a little over weight but I look at other women all the time ihave never cheated but I think that if I go and call someone tonight. then I wont have the urge for other womenif we get back together what should i do?
2006-11-24 10:11:56 · 19 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WELL I THINK YOU SHOULD TAKE SOME TIME BECAUSE IT SEEMS YOU WANT TO BE SINGLE, SEE IF YOU MISS HER, AND IF YOU DO THEN YOU KNOW WHERE YOU BELONG. ABOUT HER WEIGHT ITS NOT THE OUTSIDE THAT MATTERS ITS WITH IN. SHE MUST MAKE YOU HAPPY BECAUSE YOU MISS HER.
2006-11-24 10:21:37 · answer #1 · answered by bunnygirls3 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you ever feel the urge to cheat on someone then eventually you will do it. It would be better not only for you but for her if you just parted ways now. The longer you wait the harder it will be and the more it will hurt her if you cheated. So, if you two broke up in one night, she left, and you turned around to call someone else is a sign also that you don't really love this girl.
2006-11-24 10:22:58 · answer #2 · answered by hotredblnd788 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like you love her, it sounds like it has finally kicked in to your system that she is gone, and because you aren't used to it, there is something missing..something that you want back..and that something is her. You probably wouldn't easily get turned on by other women or have idea's like it come into your head as much but it will all still be possible. After time you will get used to not having her around and it will no longer be something missing. You wouldn't mention anything about being overweight if you loved her, you would say she is the most beautiful and sexy thing you have ever seen.. not just.. she's good enough for me.
2006-11-24 10:22:14 · answer #3 · answered by Aaron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You see she didn't answer your question because she doesn't want to break up for that. She knows what she did was dumb to just walk away but thats what most of us do so we get more attention from you guys lol. Just go, talk with her tell her you love her and that you didn't want her to repeat her self million times so you just said okay even tho u didn't hear. She should understand now cmon everyone does that. Even me and my bf gets all arrrhhh and he says nothin don't worry lol and then we just giggle. Call her, talk with her. That's not a reason to act this way.... Good luck.
2016-05-22 23:06:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so maybe it's not that you love her but don't want to be single... you obviously have security with her and don't want to lose that but is it really worth not being happy over... which I can see that your not or you wouldn't of mentioned the other woman thing and that your always keeping your eyes open.. I don't think it's a bad thing but why keep her with you if your not happy and just need that security- you should be giving yourself.. She's gonna see this eventually and what then??? It's not worth hurting her or yourself over... You should be single and learn how to have some security with yourself...
2006-11-24 10:30:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the woman go..It dont sound as if your ready for a relationship, let her find a man that is ready to settle down like she wants, so she can find happiness....You on the other hand have some growing up to do , maybe catching a STD will do the trick for ya ..go gettem tiger..lol
2006-11-24 10:19:04 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you really love eachother then tings will work themselves out & also if you really love her you don't go running off to someone else, in the long run it will hurt you both if you do that & then get back together with her. Give it a little time & a Lot of Thought.
2006-11-24 10:18:35 · answer #7 · answered by Peggy Hogan 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The fact that you were thinking of calling other people tonight says you shouldn't date her to begin with. I say stay single.
2006-11-24 10:14:10 · answer #8 · answered by Stupid White Bastard 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself some time to think...don't call anyone, not even her...If she calls, ignore the call and take time to sort your feelings out. Then go out and have fun and if you still don't love it, call her and get back with her.
2006-11-24 10:14:19 · answer #9 · answered by angelic1302 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you for real?. if you love her you would not have the urge to ring anybody else. do yourself a favour ring her tel her you love her and resolve it. as for her weight so what? beauty comes from within.
2006-11-24 10:17:52 · answer #10 · answered by rachie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋