i emailed you's a while ago about my foster family and it isent getting any better i dont know wether to walk away or not my partner dosent know what to say or do i am an emotional wreck i cant stop crying and i think my little boy is picking up on me feelign low because he has been crying alot lately i just feel that they could both do better without me in there life i am a **** up and always will be my foster sister spoke to one of my friends who was going to be god mum and i dont know what she said to my freind but now she has told me she dosent want to be because she feels like it should be a family member i am totally gutted and really upset i wont to know what my foster sister has said but my friend dident tell me i am so angrey with her and the rest of them how dare they every time i get close to someone they always get jelouse and **** it up for me i need to walk away but i am scared i love them dearly but they are hurting me to much my heart cant take anymore rejection
2006-11-24 10:10:38 · 5 answers · asked by panga 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i have my own house to with my partner and son and my foster mum has never been to mine its like she isent proud of me but always goes to my foster sisters house they are her real daughters and god i feel it i wish i was like them but i am not i am the stupid ugly freak of the family
2006-11-24 10:13:03 · update #1
first off you are not a **** up. Maybe try to get away for a while and clear your head. If i was your friend i would be honored to be the god parent of your lil boy. Talk to someone a friend, counselor or social worker. Maybe try to talk to your foster mom and the other people who are hurting you and tell them how you feel. If things still don't get better you need to move. you and your child deserve a better life. I know things seem hard now but they will get better so keep your head up. you little boy need you in his life, I'm sure you are a great mom. I hope i was of help.
2006-11-24 10:47:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you just have to go on without them. If there is no emotional support or love, then there is NO family......just people related by marriage only.
Unfortunately there are people who get off by hurting others. You have to stop being a victim. You consider yourself a ***** up when it comes to family........me too. I just left and started up my own life. I am much happier because I am no longer like a little puppy, begging for attention and getting kicked instead.
You have a partner and a son........start from there. I hope the partner is permanent because you need one stabilizing force in your life right now. If you are into part time relationships, then stop that too. A house without a good foundation crumbles easily. Unfortunately your family foundation is rotten, so it's up to you to be your own mason and build your own.
Seek counseling to get your bearings. You are not a ****up, you are just hurt trying to find love where there is none.
As for your friend, perhaps she thought not telling you would be better. Don't beg your friend for info, you are the puppy begging again. Live your life without the family from he>>. Many of us have moved on without those creeps pulling us into their crazy mind games.
2006-11-24 10:30:09 · answer #2 · answered by fluffernut 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to your social worker, You should not be so sad. If you are not happy in this foster home, then I think you should be put in another, you sound so unhappy! just by reading your question, I feel for you, have you told your foster parents what is going on? Don't worry about that so call friend, who does not want to be the god parent. just get someone else! she will be no miss. You need to work on building up yourself esteem, work on you. read books to improve yourself, Their are a lot of jealous people in this world, and you do not need no ones approval. The person you need to learn to love and approve of is yourself. Hold your head up high, try and be strong for your child, and yourself!Try and make a life for yourself, so study hard, and go to school, so you can make a better life for you and your child! I hope it all works out for you. Pray, it works.
2006-11-24 10:25:46 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take a break from them without telling them why. Your a sensitive person and that can lead you astray.. Chances are people aren't considering your feelings as much as you think they are.
Just take a break.
2006-11-24 10:21:43 · answer #4 · answered by blonde_n_brilliant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see if its worth the risk
then just jump
put the mattresses down and then jump
make sure you can handle the landing too
2006-11-24 10:14:11 · answer #5 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋