my bf has been very secretive doesnt leave his phone lying around .When he went out the other nite he didnt reply to any txts or answer his phone.The next nite i was in our bedroom drying my hair and im ashamed to say i saw his phone and looked at txts from another girl sayin "i want 2 c u again to " i confronted him about this and he said that it was just a girl that he was selling a contract phone too and he had to flirt alittle with (he does use his phone to text customers not always women)the next night he suddenly started talking all about this girl and how she came in and bought a phone for her boyfriend .was he just lying to cover up??i dont know wot to do as he is talking about gettin engage i luv him but dont know whether to trust him?
2006-11-24 10:06:39 · 33 answers · asked by miss_ninety_ukuk 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i hid my phone when i was cheating, im sorry too say, other things i did too look out for were going out more, making more of an effort too look good, sneaking off for just the odd half hour, worked alot more! and was nicer too my partner, spent more money than usual and had a spring in my step, had my partner paid me more compliments/attention listened when i said i was unhappy/bored spent more time with me i would of stopped.
2006-11-24 20:22:42 · answer #1 · answered by apple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not trust him: these are the signs:
1. not answering your txts/ calls
2. not leaving his phone around
3. txt message from a 'customer' regarding a matter which is NOT business related ( don't fool yourself )
4. His mentioning that she came to buy a phone for her boyf.
The fact is, judging by your boyf amateur approach to the whole thing, he has never cheated on you before, BUT, he is doing it NOW. whether or not he wants to get engaged does not excuse the fact that he is a liar and he's sneaky. Would you really want to spend your life with this type of person? He will never change... EVER. What you should do is, save yourself the torture of paranoia and mistrust and finish with him. It's not worth going through all that. Really, what type of husband would he make? Useless!
2006-11-24 10:28:16 · answer #2 · answered by Just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With a text saying "i want 2 c u again too"....that clearly is NOT work related...it sounds like he saw some other girl the other nite & he must have text her saying that he wanted to see her again & she responded w/ the text you saw...not a good situation...I'd talk to him more about it if I were you...and also watch his actions more closely from here on out...only you can decide if you want to stay w/ him or not...good luck!
2006-11-24 10:14:15 · answer #3 · answered by godsmacksun23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a relationship won't work if theres no trust. i dont know if he has cheated, it is a little suspicious having womens texts, especially saying i want to see you again.
Ask yourself if you do believe him, sort it out before taking the relationship further as you'll be wondering is he or isnt he for a very long time.
i would talk about engagement but wait a little longer as theres trust issues you need to discuss.
if it was me i would wait.
2006-11-24 10:13:16 · answer #4 · answered by zeldieuk2002 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry. He is cheating. Key words right there n the text you saw ("i want 2 c u again to ") "AGAIN TOO" and also he didn't answer to any of your texts or calls, so at this point he was probably getting busy. Don't trust him, don't get engaged either. Dump him!!! Or just ignore him as much as possible, he will get the hint.
2006-11-24 10:26:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont commit to him until you no the facts keep your eye on him how long can he keep it up for if hes cheating on you, take it from sum1 who knows if hes lying he'll keep on lyin and create a tangle of lies. B e patient i no its hard but the truth will uncover his activites sound susppicious you just have to be one step ahead. Usually when a guy acts liek that hes cheating creating a story casually about the girl coming to the shop to buy a fone for her bf didnt have to created unless he was trying to cover up somthing or because he thoght u didnt believ his perviou story. dont let him walk all over you make him talk...gud luck
2006-11-24 10:18:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry luv but I agree with the majority of the answers I've seen- the man is being UNFAITHFUL TO YOU!
Some people can live with it when it happens to them, I personally wouldn't advise it. If you get engaged and then married, his betrayals will make a mockery of your wedding vows.
2006-11-24 11:02:42 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your guy is taking u for a ride...watch out..on the contrary, i dont suggest u to end things wit him..maybe he is gettin attracted to this new "client"....try making ur bf jealous by asking some frnd( a guy) help and pretend as if ur flirting as well.. but be sure he is not offended by this gag...so..handle things sensibly.....all da best....lemme know wht hpnd ....ciao
2006-11-24 10:17:02 · answer #8 · answered by Bond007 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
DO YOU REALLY WANNA FIND OUT IF YOUR MAN IS CHEATING ON YOU??? If SO, then here's what you do......get one of your friends( a hot friend) Or someone else that he doesnt know you have connections with, get this friend to try and "get to know him" if he courts with this person, then that means he Will cheat on you, and that you should drop him. If he doesnt, then that means that you should keep him because he isnt a cheater!!
In order to make it work, MAKE SURE HE DOES'NT KNOW THAT YOU HAVE TIES WITH THIS PERSON!
2006-11-24 10:15:46 · answer #9 · answered by playmatecoy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Male perspective - sorry love, he's likely to be cheating.
On the plus side, I'm sure you can do better than a mobile-phone salesman.
2006-11-24 10:11:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋