ok will our society accept them? their relationship? or not cuz of ages defference and maturity levels? what do u think about these kind of cases?
2006-11-24 10:04:51 · 27 answers · asked by L0cA Ch!Ca 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok im NOT in love or interested in a 20/ 21 yr old guy....its my frnd who thinks he is in love with her....but i know its wrong i have tried to explain her that its wrong but doesn't listens to anyone.....
2006-11-24 10:12:04 · update #1
Yes that is bad.
1. Emotionally & maturity wise incompatible
2. Illegal - it's called child molestation or pedohilila
2006-11-24 10:08:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I would wonder why a 20-21 year old male would be dating a 14 year old girl. It IS about maturity. I feel that I'm pretty immature and I'm 23. I couldn't imagine being 14 and dating a guy 6-7 years older than me. I don't see where the emotional or interest connection would be. I was with a 28 year old when I was 20 and I thought it was weird of him. The whole age isn't anything but a number comes into place when there's two people who can do well on their own financially and emotionally, I would think.
2006-11-24 10:09:38 · answer #2 · answered by bettybobetty 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it will be frowned upon just because not only is it illegal but what does a 20-21 year old guy want with a 14 year old girl? Come on do the math! And no offense to anyone but date someone around your age either 2 years old, same age, or maybe a year younger. I mean come on. What is the world coming to!
2006-11-24 10:09:35 · answer #3 · answered by Pisce-Pegasus 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is bad, sick, disgusting, and illegal. No man who is 20 or 21 would be interested in a 14 year old girl except for the sick child-molester types. There is nothing in a 14 year old girl that would attract a mature 20 or 21 year old man. If he is looking at her then he is sick and needs to be in an institution.
2006-11-24 10:08:39 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it is bad. that is a 6 or 7 year difference. i am 15 and i like a a guy that is 19 that is only 4 years but anything over 21 is to old. 1-4 years older i can understand
2006-11-24 10:27:49 · answer #5 · answered by ulamciadilaucurats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 14 year previous woman, or any college woman of any age, shouldn't date any guy who's greater advantageous than 2 years older than her. it somewhat is effective because of the fact women tend to socially mature speedier than boys. The 21 year previous guy could be too busy with making waiting for a occupation to make a residing and searching a mature 19-23 year previous lady pal who he can marry interior of two or 3 years, or date others his age till around 25 yrs previous till he unearths spouse fabric. despite you do, don't have intercourse with this guy. you would be apologetic approximately it later once you're older. And, intercourse is for marriage, not casual teen exciting.
2016-10-13 01:16:48 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... there is a difference between bad and illegal. And even legality of this relationship will depend on the country you're in. Let's talk legal first: in US: forget it. In parts of Europe: you're fine (actually most Western Europe age of consent is between 12 and 15 now).
Now is it bad? Well... that's an ageless question, eh? I'm 12 years older than my gf (neither one of us is a minor) and sometimes I feel she's way more mature than me (about emotions and feelings) and in others I feel the other way round (about life wisdom and accomplishing what we want).
2006-11-24 10:13:13 · answer #7 · answered by Theseus J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i think its bad, I'm 14 && i wouldnt dream of going out with a 21,20 year old. Girls our age need to grow up and goout with people our age, with people who have the same interests as us.Where as a older person would have different interests and might want to do stuff that us 14 year olds dont feel compterble with. Stick with people your own age, until your over 18 then do what you want to ! =]]
hope i helped xx
2006-11-24 10:12:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad for the guy, who is committing statutory rape with a minor, depending on what state your live in. I would be asking why a college age guy has to be hitting on girls just coming out of junior high? If no girls his age want to have a relationship with him, why would your friend, unless she wants to be taken as a "Grownup". Adult relationships require both parties to be adults and while your friend is old enough to experience all the adult "fun", she's also old enough to experience the adult responsiblities that can go with such a relationship. In the worst case, does she want to be pregnant while her babies dad is in jail on rape charges?
2006-11-24 10:17:26 · answer #9 · answered by sapphire 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, any 20 year old man who dates a 14 year old girl only wants 1 thing: Easy Sex.
If that is you, you need to go to Planned Parenthood to get on birth control and get Condoms to practice safe sex. Go there Monday. You can find one near you on their website.
Remember that most people in their 20's have a sexually transmitted disease, so you need to always use condoms.
Call 1-800-342-AIDS to speak to a councelor about Safe sex and STD's.
That 20 year old boy is committing Statuatory Rape. You need to tell your parents. But, most 14 year old girls who are dating 20 year old guys are grown and out-of-control and will do what they wanna do, so use Condoms.
2006-11-24 10:13:09 · answer #10 · answered by Victory 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No society will not accept them.. its kinda against the law. Its a baby with a grown man. Her parents are wrong and really need to look at there morals if they let her do that. They are basically letting her through her life away
2006-11-24 10:16:50 · answer #11 · answered by **baby~doll** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋