I've been dating him for a few months. We don't believe in sex before marriage but things get out of hand physically when we're together. I don't want to mess up my ideals but I don't want to lose him either. Should we break up or stay together? Any ideas to not let it go further?
2006-11-24 09:50:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stay together...Pray together...
2006-11-27 08:03:26 · answer #1 · answered by Juliette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im going by way of this is specific same drawback. I do not know how much support im going to be though seeing as how I just requested a question similar to this now not even 10 min in the past. All i can say is if you love eachother that best will get you thus far (thats what i've realized from my possess expertise) however measure out the whole lot. I generally tend to appear on the glass half empty no longer half full so i most effective do not forget the dangerous instances and no longer the great. Maybe the great occasions are simply as equal but your so concerned with the unhealthy times you dont even realize?? I'd seem into that and if thats not the case possibly you will have to just believe about some house. No longer breaking up but identical to per week or two the place you dont see eachother and you dont talk as a lot. I am hoping that is some aid.
2016-08-09 23:25:27 · answer #2 · answered by steckler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you both fancy each other it is expected that things will 'get out of hand physically'. The only way things will never get out of hand is if you date someone who you don't fancy.... and what's the point in doing that???
So, what you need to do is discuss this matter with your friend and work out between you whether you have the same 'ideals' and if you do, together work out how not to let things get out of hand physically when you are together.
If he hasn't got the same ideals - break up
If he has the same ideal - stay together.
2006-11-24 10:11:06 · answer #3 · answered by Just me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you really care for him. If so I think you should stay with him,but since you dont want sex before marriage, dont put yourself in a position where it could get carried that far. Never be alone with him. Go on double dates or hang out with a group of friends
2006-11-24 09:55:12 · answer #4 · answered by **baby~doll** 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, first I would like to say that there are not many girls like you; but that doesn't mean that you should break up with your boyfriend. I mean not all of us are perfect and something just happen for a reason. Instead of breaking up with your boyfriend, you should have a private talk with him. Tell him your morals, ideas, and that you don't want to have sex until you get married. If he understands and respects your ideas (or morals) then he's a keeper. If not then yes you should dump your boyfriend; you deserve someone that will RESPECT you ALWAYS! Good luck with your decision; these are somethings to keep in mind.
2006-11-24 09:58:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you did say we didn't you? You should sit down an talk with him. Let him know that you know the physical part of a relationship is important but that you wanna wait. If he truly is the guy for you he'll bring it down a few. Besides you can always do other things. Good luck.
2006-11-24 10:07:31 · answer #6 · answered by jsnlr83 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask your yourself what more important to you. It also depens on his values. If both of you want each other sexually, then calmy and in a thinking matter (use protection) have each other. If this is the man that you truley believe you want to spend you life with then you should know everything about that man includes his sexual side before truely vowing yourself to him and him to you. But if you are young and are not ready to marry this man or if it is only him that wants that sexual contact then brake it off if your values mean more than he does. Its just something that you need to talk to with an older cousin or understanding aunt or uncle.
2006-11-24 09:56:54 · answer #7 · answered by notsoperfectgentleman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey its ok. even i don't believe in sex before marriage, but i had some wonderful relationships. just make sure when u make out with him u don't end up in bed.
2006-11-24 09:57:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well r u guys serious or r u just atracted to eachother??? it up 2 u ,but i wouldnt get intamate unless u REALLY want 2.
2006-11-24 09:54:29 · answer #9 · answered by truthgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to resist. Not sure what you consider sex but mutual masturbation may take the edge off.
2006-11-24 09:56:43 · answer #10 · answered by worldsource19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean by things are getting out of hand. If anything try oral sex
2006-11-24 09:53:06 · answer #11 · answered by Brian A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋