i was raped?

Question

a week ago.. i was raped by some guy that caught me walking down the streets. he took me to his apartment and raped me. im 14 years old and i had no idea who the guy was. please don't tell me to go to the police or anything because i would rather not. im really embarassed about it and i feel like he's stalking me. i would just feel safe to not say anything since he knows where i live. we live in the same neighborhood btw. i was just wondering can you get pregnant if he used a condom? he said he had one on and that i didn't need to worry, just not to tell anyone about this. i don't want to either because i'm scared that he's stalking me, and he knows where i live. i would rather just keep it to myself. i just want to know if i could be pregnant if he used a condom?

Answer 1

ok first u need to go to police and i m saying this because if u dont report on him than he will not be afraid of doing samething to another girl and ur question's answer is that No but if the condom was not ripped in most cases it is ripped
i hope u listen to my advise

Answer 2

I would not exactly trust the word of a rapist, but even if he was telling the truth and really used one, yes, condoms do have a failure rate and it is possible to become pregnant even with a condom. He may well have been telling the truth, since a condom would reduce the evidence he left behind.

I understand that this is embarrassing to talk about. You need to understant that you didn't do anything wrong. This person is relying on your fear to serve him. He thinks if he can get you to feel afraid or ashamed he can do anything he wants and you won't stop him. But you can show him that he's wrong.

Unfortunately, police speak to a lot of rape victims. They won't be shocked by anything you say. They can also help direct you to counselors and people who can help you. You need the support of your parents, too. I know you just want all this to go away, but unfortunately it never does. Don't try to take it all on by yourself. That burden can destroy you. Ask for help.

Answer 3

If this is a true story, you need to talk with your parents or a trusted friend asap. Like right now, and you do need to contact the police and tell them what happened. And yes you most certainly can get pregnant yes even with the use of a condom. And you say he is stalking you, you better go to the police before he attacks you again and next time may be worse than just rape he may kill you. Good luck and God bless*****

Answer 4

Talk to your parents and call the police right now!!
Muthafukahs like this need to be off the streets and in the jail; the sooner the better. And yes, you can get pregnant, even if he used a condom.
Rapists are scum and should be executed, imho. Even if you're scared, tell your parents and call the police because he'll do this to someone else pretty soon; you don't want that to happen, do you?
You are too important and special to let some dirtbag take advantage of you...

Answer 5

If this is true ... he lives in the same neighborhood as you, and he's likely to do it again and again if you don't tell anyone. Don't be scared and don't be a fool by keeping it to yourself. There is nothing to be embarrassed about, it's not your fault. Do you want him to do it again (to you or someone else?). You have the power to have him locked up so he can't do it again.

If he used a condom and it didn't break, there is a very small possibility you are pregnant, but probably not. You can take a home preganancy test to find out.

Answer 6

he may not have used 1 & is lying 2 u. i believe he is lying especially if he raped u he is not 2 b trusted. u must report him if not he will continue. don't b afraid 2 send him away. he is a sick indiviual & he needs 2 b punished. u must do what is right so that he does not continue 2 hurt u or any 1 else. pls let yr family or friends know it is not healthy 4 u 2 keep this a secret. PLS GET HELP! by the way condoms can break & u can get pregnant if it does. PLS GET HELP! U DESERVE THE BEST!

Answer 7

You seem pretty calm for a person who got raped. Sorry honey, but you have to do one thing.

Tell the police.

Raping is against the law! And you just let him? "Not tell anyone"? Hell, you've told the whole internet now! Tell the police. Get that bastard locked up or fined or whatever.

*sigh* No, you can't get pregnant, unless the condom broke.

Answer 8

Yes you could be and even worse yes you could have gotten an std. I would encourage you strongly to talk to your parents or school counsler. Also I would encourage you to go to an organization like Planned parenthood to get a pregnancy test and std test. I know you said you feel that you don't want to go to the police and you said you feel embarrased but I would hope that you would make a police report maybe to detour this guy from doing this again either to you or someone else. Please remember that the rape was not your fault and you have no reason to feel embarrased, he does for raping a minor and for not allowing you to associate sex with a positive thing in life. Please talk to someone!! Good Luck!!

Answer 9

There is a small chance that you could get pregnant even if he used a condom.

And I know you don't want a lecture but take it from someone who know what you're going through. DON'T LET HIM GET AWAY WITH THIS. I never told anyone about what happened to me and I regret it. If I thought I could do anything to catch the guy now I would in a second....

This guy could get another girl out there. It could be a friend of yours, a neighbor, a sister....Seriously, act on it NOW while you have the chance.

Answer 10

Yes, you can still get pregnant , if he used a condom. It is not a fool proof birth control method.

Your story doesn't ring true. Rapists don't care a whit about birth control or wearing condoms.It sounds like you agreed to sex and then got worried about getting pregnant.

If, by some far out chance you are telling the truth, you had certainly better report him or no telling how many times you'll get raped by this same person, possibly even killed to shut you up.

Answer 11

I know this is hard for you... but the truth is that You will forever feel unsafe unless yiou tell someone about what happend. You should not feel embarased by what happened HE IS THE ONE WHO SHOULD BE EMBARASED!! remember this: it is not your fault, again, IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT. Now go to a member of your family who you trust and tell them what happend. Before you do that repeat to yourself as many times as it takes: IT IS NOT MY FAULT, HE IS A VERY SICK PERSON. Remember that if he did that to you he can do it again to other girl. You now have the power to stop it....use your power! You are the only one who can do it!.

If he used a condon, chances are you did not caigh a sexual trasmited desease nor you are pregnant. But even condoms sometimes fail and therefore you should have yourself tested for STD's, HIV, and pregnancy.

Now go and talk to someone who can help you with this.