What are some things he should do to get better?
2006-11-24 09:32:45 · 13 answers · asked by Shawna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to let him know what you like and dislike or what he needs to try to do. Take over girl and make it happen.
2006-11-24 09:35:10 · answer #1 · answered by Ivory_Flame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the things you want him to improve on. Sex is a 2 way street. Have you tried controlling the sex, that usually helps alot. Most men don't know what is satisfying the woman and what isn't. I will tell you one thing though if you are faking then he thinks he is doing a good job and won't try to do it any different because he is confident that he is doing the job the right way. Also how long has he been having sex, guys aren't very good at first. Haven't you heard practice makes perfect? Also there are web sites for those kind of hints and helps. Maxim, Stuff, and Men's Health or Men's World usually have articles about those things. I know there are alot of women's magazines that touch those subjects because my girlfriend used to read them to me. Good luck. Later....L.G.
2006-11-24 17:44:25 · answer #2 · answered by michael a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are responsible for training him to **** you the way you wanta be ******...if you don't speak up about what you want, need, expect, etc. how will he ever know? If you're gonna' get naked with a guy and then complain that he doesn't do what you want him to do, yet not tell him what you want, then who is responsible?
2006-11-24 18:17:57 · answer #3 · answered by bongfuel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has been said, "You're responsible for your own pleasure/orgasm."
I take that to mean communication with your man is key.
It's also been said most men are clueless. I don't particularly agree with that but, assuming it may be so, then give him a clue or two on what's good for you.
2006-11-24 17:42:46 · answer #4 · answered by WindWalker10 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can have him practice oral first or you can give him a little advanced warning so he can get rid of that first shot so when you get there he'll have staying power. tell him to exercise by flexing and releasing the muscle that he would use to stop the flow of urine. (keagel exercises? i forgot what they're called). and always be supportive because if you diss him, he'll just get worse.
2006-11-24 17:41:23 · answer #5 · answered by WreckinShop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
practice, practice, practice... I think that's the only way he's going to improve. Plus you can have fun trying. If he's open to it of course. He should learn to orally please a woman, the art of a nice massage, caressing, all the things that will enable you to enjoy it better. And he will become better with time.
2006-11-24 17:36:47 · answer #6 · answered by zman70 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just start expermenting and trying new things. It could be fun getting better at sex.
2006-11-24 17:36:32 · answer #7 · answered by Adelaide V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first try instructing him on things that you like also try being on top that way you have control over what happens
2006-11-24 17:35:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://www.forbiddensextips.com/main297.html
Get this, study it, then smack your man in the head until he agrees to do these things to you.
2006-11-24 17:37:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new girlfriend.
What makes you think it's all about him, anyway? There are two people in that bed.
2006-11-24 17:36:50 · answer #10 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋