2006-11-24 09:29:44 · 25 answers · asked by uknow who 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, it's okay. Actually, I'm going through that myself. I'm seeing a married woman and I'm in love with her. There's nothing wrong with that.
2006-11-24 09:31:52 · answer #1 · answered by jazzmetalbassist 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is wrong to be in love with a married man. It does not matter if he loves you back or not. If you have a relationship with God you would know this. Lusting after anyone is adultry married or not. You should get out of this situation as soon as you can. This is only my opinion, nothing good comes out of something that is wrong. It is your choice to make, I pray you will make the right one. Good Luck.
2006-11-24 09:36:18 · answer #2 · answered by stuffy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The corenerstone of ethics is to not to do things that you would not like done to you.
If you imagine yourself married and then imagine your spouse being in love with someone else, and that's OK for you under certain circumstances...then its OK to be in love with a married man. If not, then no.
There's also another dimension to this - which is the "is it good for you" dimension. Can you share a man, and would that be emotionally good for you in the long run? Or would you always be waiting for something to change?
2006-11-24 09:35:20 · answer #3 · answered by Caramba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe that being in love in and of itself is wrong. However, knowlingly having the type of relationship with a married man that usually leads to being in love is wrong. It's wrong because he is being deceitful to his wife who he has taken an oath to "love, honor and cherish until death do them apart." You are an accomplice in the likely destruction of that family and/or the spouses' relationship.
Besides, if he has no respect for his current marital vows and is willing to be deceitful to his current wife, why in heaven's name would he be more honest and respectful to you and your relationship with him? Not to mention the fact that you have very little or no respect for his wife as well?
We've all heard the saying "what goes around, comes around."
2006-11-24 09:47:03 · answer #4 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you know, just when I think some people here have reached an all new low, you go right around them and reach the lowest low. I'm single, sweetie, and in my opinion, there is no shortage of single men. ANYWHERE!!!! Why go after a married man?? EVER HEARD OF MORALS??!! Karma is a motha, and when it comes back to you, you'll end up with some black eyes and broken bones to tend to. Cuz when Karma kicks your a*ss, it kicks it hard! Hope you end up in the hospital, home wrecker!
2006-11-24 09:35:25 · answer #5 · answered by Pea Nis Lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dead wrong. This is very bad. Stop immediately. If he loves you he would not be married. And statistics show that 99.9% of men who tell a woman they are unhappy in a marriage and will get a divorce one day never do.
2006-11-24 09:32:05 · answer #6 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get involved with a married man.
2006-11-24 09:32:25 · answer #7 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apparently there's a limit to his love, if he's married. You are just a stand in for what he "ain't" getting at home. Yes it's wrong because if he loved you, you would be his wife not his second fiddle.
2006-11-24 09:35:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES ! if he really loves you he would be a real man leave that wife and be with you. Please don't get yourself caught up in that type of relationship,cause in the end he going to still be with her no matter what you ask of him,and your heart is going to grow hate for him and it not going to be pretty after that, so walk away while you can.
2006-11-24 09:37:20 · answer #9 · answered by ALASKIAH 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well being in love there is nothing wrong ...but if he is married and says he loves you then he is wrong and if you act on it while he is married your in the wrong
2006-11-24 09:34:29 · answer #10 · answered by Jonesy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋