there is this guy that i am talking to but i dont know how to tell if he likes me or if he wants to just have sex with me and this is really starting to piss me off and im really confused HELP ME !!!!
2006-11-24 09:26:59 · 9 answers · asked by Tasha M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How does he act? That's ur answer.
2006-11-24 09:28:12 · answer #1 · answered by Amie Lee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is an age old question that is pretty much impossible to answer till after you have sex with him. However there are a few signs if he is new at trying to just get into your pants and doesn't really care for you. He is most likely genuine if he: kisses you on your forehead at times instead of alwayss trying to go in for a killer kiss, calls you beautiful and cute instead of just sexy and hot, or if hes hands are sweaty when he reaches for you because being with you makes him so nervous. Those simple things are what can help you tell the difference between a sweet good guy or somebody just wanting to get into your pants. But again it is not a sure way to know. Just trust your heart and try for the best. Though it is not alway guaranteed.
2006-11-24 09:41:11 · answer #2 · answered by notsoperfectgentleman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am rather intrigued. You have not indicated whether you have come to love him or just want to place your occasional meetings on a more or less secure footing. If the latter do not bother about committing to a step you are not yourself sure you are keen about. On the other hand if you are really serious put a dead stop to these occasional meetings unless and until you confirm that they are going anywhere. Keep away . If he is really serious about you he will try to cajole you back. This is the moment to clear all the cobwebs. Make a clean sweep. It is this end or that no middle paths.But first make sure that you are really interested in him.
2006-11-24 09:39:01 · answer #3 · answered by Prabhakar G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First u don't give it to him...Sex that is...If he is still around a month or two later then he likes u for u.Good luck hon...Plus after a month don't give in.....You need at least a year of knowing someone. Otherwise u can lose him by giveing in...Really..If someone loves u it doesn't matter what they say about oh if I don't get sex I'm going somewhere esle.They will still stay with u because they can't help it cuz they love u.Good luck
2006-11-24 09:31:50 · answer #4 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ive been through somthing like this, its kind of a 50/50. You could be finding the lover of your life or you could be getting ripped off for sex. I guess you have to take a chance and if you notice in the realationship that he wants to move on and your not comfortable with it, dump him! there are many other guys out there, you juss arent opening your eyes! its whatever you feel most comfortible with. good luck!
2006-11-24 09:31:54 · answer #5 · answered by aShLeY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are confused he probably is shy or playing a game.
Anyway whats the difference, if he likes you he still wants to have sex with you.
So what? At your probable age keep your legs closed regardless. Respect yourself.
2006-11-24 09:27:55 · answer #6 · answered by elisioloyd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and do not give him sex.
2006-11-24 09:28:03 · answer #7 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well does he make dirty jokes about u and him and stuff??? if he does then its jus sex.... and if hes like interested in u and askin u questions and stuff.. mildly flirtin.. he likes u..
but theres no harm in askin
2006-11-24 09:28:48 · answer #8 · answered by LaLa G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him and never sell urself cheap..
2006-11-24 09:29:20 · answer #9 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋