there is this guy that i am talking to but i dont know how to tell if he likes me or if he wants to just have sex with me and this is really starting to piss me off and im really confused HELP ME !!!!
2006-11-24 09:25:47 · 11 answers · asked by Tasha M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give it time before y'all do anything. I'm not saying months & months, but let what ya'll have now evolve fully into a "relationship" before you do anything. If he cares, then he will understand. Ask him what he's looking for from you- dont ask him directly if he's trying to hit; because he'll lie & say no; sex always part of the goal on BOTH sides if ya'll are both sexually active, but at the risk of sounding like that's all he wants, he'll lie around that. Be honest with him & yourself. That's usually the best policy.
2006-11-24 09:45:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you can bet your life that he wants to have sex with you. stevie wonder can see that. all guys are about just sex at first. after the lust is gone, it's the chemistry between you two that determines the relationship. you can tell if the chemistry is there by examining the quality time you spend together. do you enjoy each other's company? do you miss each other? etc.
2006-11-24 09:35:25 · answer #2 · answered by WreckinShop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men >>>> they all want to "just have sex with you". I believe this is mostly true. Trust no one.
Don't have sex with him and if he's still around many many months down the line then he likes you.
2006-11-24 09:27:40 · answer #3 · answered by Juniper84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you even have to think if someone is trying to use you for sex then DITCH him!!! Guys are pretty predictable and when that question comes into mind it cant mean anything positive..
2006-11-24 09:27:16 · answer #4 · answered by rkonkin226 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u have already give in to him in the bed room he most likly thinks why mess up what we already have . stop looking for signs and talk to him ask him what is going on in his head what does he want from you or you may never find out
2006-11-24 09:29:19 · answer #5 · answered by whiteangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out for a drink and after about 20mins casually mention what you are and arn't looking for. Find out that way, He should be able to open up to you, I mean that's what friends do..
2006-11-24 10:00:38 · answer #6 · answered by fe2bsho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell give it a shot and dont give it up! if he wants sex then he will get tired of you if you ondt have sex and you will know thats all he wanted.
2006-11-24 09:27:24 · answer #7 · answered by kathernva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him how he feels about you.
Don't have sex until you are married.
2006-11-24 09:27:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
the way i do it is make them wait. and if he sticks around then he is worth it
2006-11-24 09:28:02 · answer #9 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY DID YOU POST THIS TWICE?
2006-11-24 09:28:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋