I have been surrounded with non believers for as long as I can remember. They all look at me as if I have no sense at all when I speak of God or Jesus. Then, if I just begin to ask a question or touch upon the subject. They always give me the same ole "...oh terri" as if they feel sorry for me.
The fact is that I am not real good at spreading the news. I have very little knowledge of what it is that I am trying to do- so I feel inadiquite.
What is the correct way of going about helping to save another soul that has denied Jesus? Is there a book or a chapter or are there normal words that sink into an average joes intellect better than what I have been attempting to convey? I truely need some guidance- any one got any?
2006-11-24 09:06:00 · 14 answers · asked by tbaby 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Maybe you are like me.I have never really been cut out for the whole "soul winning " thing.I just continue to pray for my loved ones' spiritual health.There is power in prayer.As far as Bible verses go try the old king James version of John and Hebrews.Good luck.
2006-11-24 09:13:34 · answer #1 · answered by Myaloo 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if you have done all you can. If these people have been your friend despite your convictions, then they truly are good friends. But I wouldn't try to "save their soul" at least until you have done some more research and can actually have an intelligent conversation about God.
Although it is interesting to me that you have such beliefs even though you know little about it. If you were to speak about something else you had little knowledge of, then people would react the same way, knowing you are ignorant to the information. It is one thing the believe on faith, and another to believe in ignorance.
You need to do more research into the religion more for yourself than for your friends. The 'average joe' should take this advice as well.
2006-11-24 09:14:34 · answer #2 · answered by toothfairy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that you don't have enough knowledge, try your hardest to learn as much as possible. You should read the Bible and have a devotional book to help guide you through. There are devotional books for teens that focus on witnessing. Check out a local Christian bookstore.
I'm a teen Christian in high school, too. I know its hard to talk about God with a bunch of teens that think Christianity is a joke. Before you even let anything come out of your mouth, try praying silently that God will guide your words and use them to help others understand. and if they make fun of you, remember that the insults they hurl at you hit Jesus instead. I know it's hard, but remember that Jesus promises to "never leave you or forsake you." He'll be right beside you. It helps me, too, to be part of a BIble study at my school and at my church. That way, i get to know kids from my school and area that are going through the same things i am. They will be there at school and will have my back if i'm backed into a corner. I'd suggest finding some friends who are Christians at your school. You will find that you're not alone! God is with you, and so are other Christians! I'll be praying for you!
here are some good books: (you can find them at www.cbd.com)
~Dare 2 Share: A Field Guide to Sharing Your Faith
~Sharing Your Faith Made Easy
~Sharing My Faith: A Teen's Guide to Evangelism
2006-11-24 09:31:02 · answer #3 · answered by love4God 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Save by example, would be the suggestion I'd give. Christians have been given a lot of bad press. I'm not saying they are blameless, but you understand my point.
Ever noticed how easily people tend to emulate some icon? Well, you need to be the person that you want them to be. Show them what it means to be a Christian. I believe the phrase " living sacrifice " applies here.
Some people aren't yet ready for God. Some people never will. Don't be the guy that's ramming the bible down peoples throats until they vomit it back up. Be the person that there for them, so should they chose to follow Christ, they have a way to do it.
Best wishes.
2006-11-24 09:14:02 · answer #4 · answered by Odindmar 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
"What is the correct way of going about helping to save another soul that has denied Jesus?"
Don't.
No, seriously, don't. They don't need "saving", and 99 times out of 100, you'll either get a negative reaction or no reaction at all when you try something like that. You'll come across as pushy and condescending to many people. Everyone knows what Christians believe and they know where to find you guys if they want to get in on it as well, but it's a personal decision that they have to make (and in most cases, have already made) so let them be.
2006-11-24 09:09:33 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You don't have to be salesman (or salesperson) for Jesus. Just be yourself. Don't force it because someone in church tells you too. Jesus is not a commodity to be sold like Avon or Mary Kay. People can tell when you are speaking from an agenda to save their souls. They may feel insulted like you don't really see who they are. If you are true to what's in your heart, people will see the joy and the peace it brings you and will want to have what you have. (Read Matthew 5:16).
The first sentence of your question states that you continue to deny Jesus. This is human. Even Peter, the rock on which Jesus built his church - denied Jesus. Just continue to build your faith. Continue to pray and read and learn from the bible. You don't have to be the one to save souls. That's a really heavy duty to take on. You may have other gifts that prepare the way and helps others to save souls.
Be confident and put your trust in God.
2006-11-24 09:23:47 · answer #6 · answered by Christy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A boy was once asked: 'how do you show love'. He didn't say a word, but broke his piggy bank, and gave the contents--$12.50-- to a beggar on his street.
Morals: Action speaks louder than words.
Also, don't worry about your problem. Tell others how God has blessed you. Even Jesus did not have many believers. On the contrary many vilified him.
2006-11-24 09:13:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
wow! you´re great. Jesus surely feels glad you want to admit him, regardless everyody around you wont. You don´t need to preach from a book, just say what your heart feels. Read a book so that you can speak more fluently.
Good luck
Keep on walking the right road..
2006-11-24 09:19:26 · answer #8 · answered by whothatBE 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is live a good, upright life. Trust in God and have a positive attitude. Your actions should do all the speaking for you.
2006-11-24 09:13:45 · answer #9 · answered by Heron By The Sea 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Live a Christlike life, and love EVERYONE.
God does. Each and every one, whether they believe it or not.
Put legs on your faith, and do something tangible; don't talk about it. You are standing on Holy Ground.
You cannot save anyone, but you can show them how Christ loves. He dwells in you, whether you feel like it or not.
Jesus came "not to condemn".
2006-11-24 09:17:19 · answer #10 · answered by pops 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋