Hi.
This question is for my mom really, she keeps having this dream (has been for 10 years) about a young boy sitting in a room, on a chair with his back towards her, she starts to walk up to him but just as hes about to turn around, she wakes up in a cold sweat. It happons every time. shes never seen his face.
The thing about it is that she had a baby son who died and she has a strong feeling that this could be him trying to let her know that hes ok.
What do you think? no stupid remarks, please.
Thanks.
2006-11-24 08:43:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
before i even read on .. i was about to ask if she lost a baby ( honestly )
yes this is what i believe ....and i think your mum should be trusted on her own instincts about that also
she wakes before she sees him out of fear of seeing it for herself i think ... she isnt ready for that yet ... but she will be im sure in time
i am told that we visit with spirit during sleep
my mum sees my dad all the time ... he even gives her messages that she can validate later
love to you and mum xxx ( be happy that she has had this experience xxx )
2006-11-24 08:45:54 · answer #1 · answered by Peace 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hi there. I'm not sure why you put this question in R&S, unless you're looking for a theological answer.
I too have had reacurring dreams, and one imparticular frightening one, but I've never looked at it from a theological point of view.
Does your mother dream often, for instance every night or even when she naps during the day? I asked my family doctor about mine and she asked me these questions. She pointed out what I was going through in my life at the time, and gave me a sleeping pill.
I didn't like the meds. I felt out of touch, so to speak, when I couldn't dream. Scary or not.
I'm sorry, I said all of that to say this, there are people who believe that the deceased do try to let their loved ones know they are okay. I questioned it once because of my faith and was surprised at all the answers I received. I was pointed to articles about such things. I'm not sure there is scripture to help you, but I firmly believe that your mother will see and hold her son again and you will see your brother. God Bless.
2006-11-24 08:59:11 · answer #2 · answered by Emma J 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is afterall only a dream. No hidden messages, no deep dark supernatural business about them. Dreams are a product of our subconscious minds. So obviously your mom has been thinking about the lost son during her waking hours and those unresolved thoughts and feelings come out in the form of dreams.
2006-11-24 08:52:29 · answer #3 · answered by ndmagicman 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is every chance that this IS the case, particularly if she believes it to be so.
The challange she faces though, is letting go of the pain of loss hence the reccurance of the dream. It is highlighting the need to let go of the pain, allow his spirit to pass and to move on! His energy is eternal and she will reconnect with him when she passes so she needs to know the concept of 'dead and gone' is NOT true but to allow herself to live and be happy again
2006-11-24 09:22:15 · answer #4 · answered by lit_spirit 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dreams are the subconcious's method of releasing things that our concious mind blocks out due to trauma, forgetfulness, subliminal triggers etc. Obviously your mother has been through a traumatic experience and her subconcious is focousing on that.
If it is causing distress in day to day life try seeking psychiatric help. Therapy might get to the root of the problem.
2006-11-24 08:51:14 · answer #5 · answered by geoffrey2312 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it could be, but it also could be her mind, not letting go or remembering him,,,,,, the fact that she doesnt see his face might represent that if he passed away as a baby, her mind really would not have a concept of what exactly he looked like as a young boy , so i cant of course say for sure, i know as a teen i use to have a dream, a man was in the dream, but i never saw his face, to me later it represented my future husband, as the build was similar,
2006-11-24 08:48:22 · answer #6 · answered by dlin333 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dream interpretation is better left to the psychology field. Anyone who is attempting to decode this dream would have to know a lot more about the context of your mothers life. I would take any "serious" answer you get to this question with a very large grain of salt.
2006-11-24 08:45:56 · answer #7 · answered by ChooseRealityPLEASE 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
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2006-11-25 01:37:01 · answer #8 · answered by Spirita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is a spiritual dream. She is afraid to see the face of this boy, hence the cold sweat.
2006-11-24 08:58:13 · answer #9 · answered by Sand 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well I think that the dream means that your mother wishes he was still alive and wants to be with him, but he's turned around and I think that means she knows she can't see him again. Your mother has this reccuring dream becsause she feels very strongly about this.
2006-11-24 08:46:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋