We ended out engagement about 11 months ago....were engaged for 2 years, and together for 5.........I have a guy, he has a new girl, but he always calls me and tells me how much he misses me and loves me, and will never love anyone else like he does me! I NEVER innitiate these conversations, and dont call him! He is always the one doing the calling......we have not seen each other since it ended, and we dont have any financial ties, or any children together! What should I think about all of this.......
2006-11-24 08:34:08 · 9 answers · asked by Miss MotoX 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
His affection is nice, but I can see it's unwanted. It must be hard for him to move on after a long relationship like that. It's not bad to keep talking to him, but if he's being pushy about getting back together you need to say something about it. Especially since you have a new guy and he's with someone else. He needs to focus on that new relationship before she finds out that hes still focused on you.
2006-11-24 08:45:35 · answer #1 · answered by Shannon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The next time he calls tell him that he is "cheating" on his girlfriend right now. He shouldn't be telling you he loves you and going out with another girl at the same time. Also I would tell him that it's over with him. I don't feel comfortable talking to you anymore because I have a new boyfriend and I am trying or I am over you whatever the case is. I wouldn't want to talk to him anymore if all he says is that he loves me. He's got to let go and get on with life. This isn't healthy for him.
2006-11-24 09:32:21 · answer #2 · answered by Shell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's nothing wrong with to talk to ex-fiance, ex-husband, ex-friend etc., It is a very civilized approche. The problem occurs when the " x " says; " I never love anyone like I love you or " I miss you ". DANGER sign. This person just can't give you up and will come between you and your new relationship.You have to make him understand that it's over.
2006-11-25 07:51:41 · answer #3 · answered by aum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it extremely is no longer the main astounding element to do. you're hiding stuff out of your fiance already? you should choose and carry on with it. on the different hand, it is likewise no longer suitable on your fiance to dictate who you are able to and can't communicate to. That smells like difficulty. Did you get into this fiance relationship on the rebound from the breakup from the 1st boy? in case you're nevertheless in school you're way too youthful to be engaged besides. females should not be staring at getting married in the past 25 on the earliest!
2016-11-26 20:25:52 · answer #4 · answered by behl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's necessarily bad to talk to your ex. My question to you is this--have you already moved on? Keeping your relationship open as "friends" is fine. But I think there should definitely be clear boundaries for both parties! Your ex clearly misses you, and may even regret his actions. But if you have already moved on, you want to be fair to your new significan other, you probably don't need more problems or confusion.
2006-11-24 10:40:58 · answer #5 · answered by Benji's Mommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not bad to talk to your ex fiance. Maybe he just wants you back.
2006-11-24 08:37:50 · answer #6 · answered by Monica R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I talked to my ex fiance for a while, and now he is married. your ex needs to know where to draw the line. if it is making you and your current boyfriend uneasy tell him to stop calling you.
2006-11-24 08:37:58 · answer #7 · answered by ebrinkleywc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is confused. Talk to him and ask him if he has a girl why he keeps calling you. If you still have feelings for him then try to work things out.
2006-11-24 08:37:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you still have the same feelings for him then maybe you should try to get back together... maybe it will work out this time!
2006-11-24 08:43:49 · answer #9 · answered by it makes me smile :] 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋