Me and my Bfriend has been together for 1yr. and some months. The thing is that im not happy when we are together. I see him every weekend and I dont be happy. He calls every single night and I want to tell him how I feel but I cant because I might hurt his feelings. We already broke up once and he cried and i dont like hurting boyz feelings. So if anybody can help me PLZ do i really need it.
2006-11-24 08:29:55 · 8 answers · asked by newyorkshorty_9595 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how about u introduce someone else he might like better but don't tell him u secertly want him to like her better than u
2006-11-24 08:31:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ok. This is coming from a man that's been around. First, why do you torture yourself. You like him and don't want to hurt his feeling but come on, your pretending to like and putting on a show. You need to tell him how you feel and be honest. He will hurt, but the pain will go away. After everything is done and said he will respect you because you were honest with him and yourself and if not, well, that's his problem. Think of this, if the shoe was on the other foot, wouldn't you want to know. I would! Then I could go on living my life and meeting the person that's thinks the world of me and not pretending all because she doesn't want to hurt my feelings. I know, sounds a little rough but I had my share of break ups and failed relationships but you learn. Just let him off as easy as possible and do it face to face. Hope that helps
2006-11-24 16:40:10 · answer #2 · answered by Andrew A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
n o n s e n s e: the truth may hurt at the beginning - but not as
much as lying or showing wrong consideration for someone
and keep up a realtionship just because fo not knowing not
to hurt someone´s feelings.
2006-11-24 16:38:32 · answer #3 · answered by rgarlik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl... TAKE CARE OF YOU FIRST. If you arent happy... Find a way to be happy. Life is too short to deal with other people that dont make you happy. You obviously KNOW that you do not want to be with him anymore, then quit wasting time with him.
2006-11-24 16:32:51 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are hurting him even more by not telling him just be honest with him and things will workout for the both of you.
2006-11-24 16:33:25 · answer #5 · answered by klynna 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your unhappy just end it be honest..... It will hurt him for awhile and he will cry stand your ground with him and he will get the point.... Just stayin with him is leading him on an lieing to him ad yourself..... wait any longer and it will be harder on him.. Good luck
2006-11-24 16:34:23 · answer #6 · answered by evil_fallen_angel41 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is no reason to stay in a relationship. You can be nice but firm, and you need to be prepared for the tears. The longer you stay in the relationship, the more time you are wasting of both of your lives. It is not fair to him to keep stringing him along thinking you are sparing his feelings.
2006-11-24 16:33:02 · answer #7 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
just tell him . it will be better that way. but break it to him gently.
2006-11-24 16:32:06 · answer #8 · answered by sarah m 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋