You are asked on a date by 2 guys. You have to choose between a guy friend you've known for a long time or the new bad boy in school. You know thye friend won't break your heart but you want to get to know the bad boy. Who do you choose and why?
2006-11-24 08:26:38 · 31 answers · asked by Ms. New Cutie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the guy friend, here is the reason:
Guy friend:
1. You kind of like him
2. You know him (very important)
3. You won't hurt you
The bad boy:
1. He will hurt you, he's bad!!!!!
2. You don't know him
Think of this, the bad boy one day embarass you in front of everybody, or maybe he does something bad, do you still love him. THat bad boy is not gonna stand up for you. HE'S BAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-24 08:29:58 · answer #1 · answered by DarkAngel T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, for one I am a guy so maybe you should listen to me... But my information would be to explain to the friend that you would like to spend time with that friend but can't do it on the day that you are going to spend time with the "bad boy". I wouldn't tell the friend that part..but that you want to explore your options or something. If the friend is truly a friend then they will understand. Take your chances with the bad boy...but be cautious. Tell your friend about the date and everything. Then listen to what the friend has to say. In these times you should follow your heart. The friend will most likely give you the best advice don't ignore the friend, really. Good luck.
2006-11-24 16:32:29 · answer #2 · answered by asianxal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad boy
2006-11-24 16:40:54 · answer #3 · answered by frankmilano610 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definatley the friend. If you know he will be good to you, take him. You dont want to be broken-hearted by the bad boy. You will most likely build a really good relationship with your friend and have an even better bond with him since you have known him.
2006-11-24 16:29:59 · answer #4 · answered by Clueless 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lik girl slow down!
u definately cant do 2 at a time in the same school so u just hav 2 delay it though id prefer the old guy 2 the new guy (thats if the old guy is fine i hate pity dates)
u shoul get 2 know this new guy better be4 making any decisions cause lik they say " the devil u know is always better than the devil u dont know"
good luck!
i've got three but i dont want any of them so i ignore.......ignore LOL
2006-11-24 16:32:51 · answer #5 · answered by fatima b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF the bad boy isnt moving out of town over night... go out with your friend. Chances are things will be too weird to continue a relationship with your friend, so you will still be able to go out with the bad boy. Good luck
2006-11-24 16:28:05 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would tell the "bad boy" i had a previous engagement, and go out with my friend... and also ask the "bad boy" if we could do it another time... After all boys will come and go but friends will last forever.... especially if its your best friend... i would rather spend time with my friend and arrange a time to be alone with the other guy another time!!
~CHEERS!!~
2006-11-24 16:30:05 · answer #7 · answered by Romy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would go with the friend. because i wouldnt want to hurt his feelings and i havnt known the bad boy long enough to hurt him. i would tell the bad boy that i already have plans but would like to go out some other time.
2006-11-24 16:28:47 · answer #8 · answered by sarah m 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are looking for a fling, take the bad boy. If you want a real relationship, take the friend.
2006-11-24 16:28:15 · answer #9 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What kind of a friend would it be? Would he be a nerdy guy or someone who isn't too bad looking and fits into the college social scene better?
2006-11-24 16:29:54 · answer #10 · answered by Bear 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋