I like this girl, i want to talk to her. I just dont know exactly what to say. Im not very attractive, so I can't get her to like me on my looks. I want to talk to her, but I don't know what to say. I can't tell her I like her yet. Because we have only talked once, and I see her everyday and if i said something, it would be akward (which i don't want). That is why I can't start talking to her about me liking her, otherwise it will be very embarrasing/ and akward for both of us. Any tips would be GREATLY apprechiated.
2006-11-24 08:16:36 · 21 answers · asked by AdviceGuy399 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just try to be confident, and make her laugh. girls like guys with a good sense of humor
2006-11-24 08:20:41 · answer #1 · answered by Sami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain... But there is a lot to be said about confidence. If you are confident, and hold yourself up, you shouldn't have a problem. Women for the most part are reasonable, and respect a man who has self respect and confidence. If she turns you down because of your appearance, then to hell with her. Self worth and dignity will last a lifetime, where looks will fade. Step up, make sure your fingernails are clean(seriously), and ask her out. Don't let it get to you.
***Oh, and I know people will say...'Try to be her friend"... but remember that once you're on the 'friends' list, it gets hard to get off it. You might wind up being the 'shoulder to cry on guy'. That'll be worse, as you'll have to be there when some other guy does her wrong. The your relationship will be born upon the altar of a broken heart. Be Bold!!!***
2006-11-24 08:21:20 · answer #2 · answered by FRANKFUSS 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.K. first of all DO NOT TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL! this is a common mistake and can put you across as needy or wussy the best way to attract a girl is to use a this process called c&f cocky and funny, for example if you are shorter or younger or anything and age or hight is brought up in conversation do not say oh well you dont like younger men or whatever and be defeated, if she mentioned your age use it to your advantage by saying something like "you think i'm young, well I'm not going to fall for a pick up line like that you are going to have to work much harder to get me on a date!" I know it sounds scuicidal but believe me it works you just have to try to be confidant and try not to look as though you are interested in her because thats fatal too
Good luck
2006-11-24 08:24:29 · answer #3 · answered by Mark C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think that if she is a decent person then she wont care for the looks but she will care for the heart and the mind. But before you ask her anything you need to get the courage and talk to her and get to know her more. After you two start talking more and getting close to each other then you can bring it up the liking her if you still do.
2006-11-27 07:44:32 · answer #4 · answered by horsegirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be urself homie.. Just stay around a little while longer. But try to let her know ur interested by sliding some sweet remarks like u r looking lovely today, or u smell a good as a spring breeze. Much power to ya..
2006-11-24 08:20:18 · answer #5 · answered by jayfrezzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start off slowly by taking your time and getting to know her as a friend. Find out her interests, hobbies, etc. Let her see that you're a good guy who respects her. Be friends for a while before telling her how you feel.
2006-11-24 08:22:40 · answer #6 · answered by postcardtrader 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well compliment her on a daily basis even if u don't like what she is wearing. tell her she pretty, beautiful, sexy. joke with her make her laugh or use ur body language to send signals. be friend with her. get to know what she likes to u can do it for her. u know man just be yourself and when the time comes I'm sure u will find a way. good luck
2006-11-24 08:23:54 · answer #7 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thaugh one :)
You have to be bold and talk to her.
- smile to her
- do little polite things like open the door for her
- try to invite her to a coffee
- write her a cute poem or a few lines and explain to her what you feel, just like you did here
Good luck :)
2006-11-24 08:21:30 · answer #8 · answered by rebel_g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey this is a good time to start a conversation.......with the holiday right around the corner there should be somehing there that you could start a conversation with. like what will santa be bringing you for x-mas and just take it fom there.........good luck
2006-11-24 08:20:47 · answer #9 · answered by lisa b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok no i woodnt go with the stalkin.....first i would like try and talk to her.....be yourself and see how tht works out.
after you get to know her a little more u should like hangout and stuff and if you dont want to tell her u like her without using the words "i like you" u should just like give her small hints and flirt with her
2006-11-24 08:20:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋