So I met this guy that my friends fixed me up with and he seems pretty cool. My friend asked him when I went to the bathroom what he thought and he said that he thought I was pretty and liked me. My friend gave him my digits and he said for me to expect to hear from him again. Last night I had a few too many to drink and I got his number from them and just sent a txt saying happy thanksgiving and got a belated happy thanksgiving from him but that was it. I would like to see him again but I don't know what's going on with him. I dont want to be too forward and be a pain about it but it's been a while since I was on the dating scene and would like to meet up wtih again. Should I just wait for him to contact me or should I text him again and try to start an actual conversation? Any advice would be greatly appreciated:)
2006-11-24 08:05:58 · 11 answers · asked by sicofitall325 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No Im just bored at work...lol...I dont want to come on too strong bc Im not looking for him to be my bf but I would like to get to know him better and see where it will go...Its defintely not the end of the world if I never hear from him again but like I said I am interested...
2006-11-24 08:17:23 · update #1
It is the hoilday week he might be with family wait till monday or tuesday. If he hasn't called. you should call ,or text him
2006-11-24 08:11:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those friends of yours who arranged your 1st date with him are in a better position to tell what should be your next move if at all you trust them, see, since it was an arranged meeting , he mite be as well in the same dilemma as you`re, bcos other people are involved in the scene to start with. As i told you either seek your friends` help or be bold enough to txt him or call him on the pretext of asking him a simple question, based on your last conversation with him during the meeting if at all there was a worthwhile communication between you two.
Another simple way out & safe is just write a sweet txt on your mbl meant for your Dad/Bro and txt him the same, then call him after a while and apologise to him by telling him it was a mistake ! His reaction will definately give you more than enuogh clue , how to break the SHELL ! All this if he`s worthy enough , otherwise let him make the first move , you wait & watch !
2006-11-24 16:34:23 · answer #2 · answered by Cosmaurice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont wait on him, he might be one of those who never calls. If you know he already likes you, why is it so hard? I think rejection is easier for females than males anyway.If you approached him first, all he could say is yes or no, whats the big deal. Just text him and ask him if you could meet him to talk. theres no harm there, then you could lay your cards on the table. If he wants to play games, send him on a treasure hunt. And this is how you do it. Leave a note, annonymously, tell him where to find his next clue, plant the clue prior to this, and on and on. You can hide the clue, bury it or whatever, the clues are usually enticing, such as chocolate syrup, hand cuffs, cherries, panties, stuff like that, hopefully you wont have to put out that much effort, but it does work
2006-11-24 16:26:36 · answer #3 · answered by Sudie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey relax its Thanksgiving weekend a time for family and close friends. Try giving him a call instead of a text, a call is more personal. Try Sunday when the weekend has wound down you'll have plenty to talk about and can set somethin' up for next week. Good Luck. BTW Spongebob rocks!
2006-11-24 16:16:31 · answer #4 · answered by BluLizard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is that you should have just been patient and waited for him to call you. He said he would call you, so you need to give him time to decide what he thinks of dating you. Don't be overly eager because this can turn a guy off. There is no challenge and he thinks you are pushing him into a relationship before you have even started dating. At this point just try not to think about him and move on if he does not contact you again. If he is interested he will call you. Just give him time. If he doesn't call then HE just ISN'T that interested.
2006-11-24 16:12:47 · answer #5 · answered by LDR02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it sometime, Thanksgiving was just yesterday and he was probably very busy having Thanksgiving with his family. Next time you see him strike up a conversation. If you worry too much about receiving too short of a text back you might start to seem too needy and being too needy is not an attractive trait...play it cool like it doesnt even bother you
2006-11-24 16:14:53 · answer #6 · answered by cat00415 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm, I'd say it's not too dangerous to text him, but honestly, I'd suggest waiting a bit, seeing what kind of move he makes, but that's a bit irritating. Let's see... my mom would say text him, and my dad would say wait a few hours and text him... so why don't you text him now and ask him what he's doing, it doesn't seem like you're doing much if you're on here.
2006-11-24 16:13:12 · answer #7 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i think you should think about it or tx him and try to start a conversation with him if he changes the subject try to ask him if he is seeing anyboby. if not ask him if he'ed like to go on another date. well i don't no much but thats what i would do so good luck and hope this helps you
2006-11-24 16:12:04 · answer #8 · answered by izziekittycutie929 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea maybe u shood b the one tht makes the first move. but after tht if he doesnt really seem to b interested just forget it....theres plenty of fish in the sea....
lol
no seriously
2006-11-24 16:08:22 · answer #9 · answered by hehehehe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might want to contact him, except its kind of weird to do it on thanksgiving weekend, considering that people might be busy. dont worry so much about it.
2006-11-24 16:09:40 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋