Women take my kindness as a weakness. Should I change my ways to keep from getting hurt?
2006-11-24 07:55:53 · 16 answers · asked by bob 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why cut your nose to spite your face huh?......if you change who you really are because some women decide to take advantage, you are still playing into their hands.....listen just know this....your kindness is not a weakness, it is actually a strength that many other decent women will admire, and a man who is kind, gentle, and considerate....why would you let a few women who unappreciated a good man make you change the way you are...for what?..... you will not be happy being someone else that is'nt you, and you will only get hurt if you allow yourself to be hurt, when you see the first reactions of a woman trying to take you for granted......quickly break that off.....so it dosent go any further....remember always to protect your heart. Good luck.
2006-11-26 20:25:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should change some things but not to many. keep ur knidness in some girls thats all they really need to be with someone. dont become a player thats the last thing anybody wants unless ur a manwhore. if u become a player u wont end up hurting urself and also the person ur dating. if u want to change something then u have to get self cofindece, get just a bit fit if need be and be full of surprises if ya have to.
2006-11-24 08:01:28 · answer #2 · answered by arail q 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not looking at it honestly. You ARE weak; why else would you be kind? Thumbs down's aside, you will remember these words if you attempt to be a player. See, being a player means playing hard ball; it means you got to hurt people, plain and simple. And, if you ain't prepared to do that, don't even bother. Stay weak. Stay safe.
WEAK IS COOL.
2006-11-24 08:08:41 · answer #3 · answered by Lightbringer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...don't change your ways to get a girl. If they take your kindness as an advantage, just leave them. Yes I admit...some girls like a bad boy but every girl dreams to have their man romantic, kind, sweet, and a little bad in them. But don't go overboard with it...still be nice to those who are nice to you.
Respect others as how you would want to be respected. Have a good day :)
2006-11-24 07:59:52 · answer #4 · answered by Just a mom :D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think they take it as a weakness, but i'll tell you what i ask myself that same thing alot, alot of female friends i have tell me all the tiem were can i find a nice guy all i ever find is *** wholes, well there toots y do'nt you open your eyes and look right in front of you, adn i say that, F it i'm just going to be a d i c k and i'll get more gurls but its just not me i can't do it, but if you really find the answer to that man let me know
2006-11-24 08:00:54 · answer #5 · answered by dom_parnell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't change your ways if you like yourself. You've heard the saying you have to kiss a few toads. Well at least you know what you don't want. If you're a sweetheart one day you'll find your princess. On the other hand dogs get fleas.
2006-11-24 08:02:19 · answer #6 · answered by AlwayzaLady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from me. Girls don't even know from a player when they see one. It's up to you. Can you live with being with a girl on a play? Or are you deeper?
I don't play anymore, it feels plastic to me. But I know how to. And have. I figure women and men who play and get played get what they deserve. You want entertainment, or something more?
2006-11-24 21:27:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way. yo could maybe be a tiny bit of a bad a**, but dont be mean to girls. you should pretty much keep being a nice guy.
2006-11-24 07:58:28 · answer #8 · answered by luvlikewinter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go from one extreme to the other just buff yourself up a bit mentally - you are still the nice guy but won't take any crap.
2006-11-24 07:59:20 · answer #9 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and whatever other cliche's you want. Im sure they dont take it as a weakness... or at least I wouldnt. Dont be an *** --- the majority of us dont like people like that.
2006-11-24 08:01:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋