Last year I went out with a woman who had a rape fantasy. She wanted me to help her fulfilling it by giving me the key to her place and telling me to sneak in one day and tie her up and blind fold her but not let her know it was me until it was over. I thought she was crazy and dumped her. Is this type of fantasy common for women?
2006-11-24 07:54:32 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah domination is one thing. I can see that. But I saw the rape fantasy as a sign to run for the hills.
2006-11-24 08:07:55 · update #1
NOT common, not safe, and not mentally healthy. No intelligent, emotionally stable woman with any self-esteem would wish for that kind of degradation. You were very wise to run, not walk, in the opposite direction.
And to the answerer above who said it is biological... if you really believe that, you are one sick puppy.
2006-11-24 08:01:44 · answer #1 · answered by Fogjazz49-Retired 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to inform you, it is a quite common fantasy for women. I think it's the domination thing. But I would want to get a 'little' bit of a heads up so I can clean my place LOL
2006-11-24 15:57:46 · answer #2 · answered by twest_dgo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she's crazy, Did you even bother to see why she had this fantasy??? My guess is no and it could of been from her being violated sometime in her life... Some woman when violated get all sheltered and wont let another man even say hello and other woman run to that not knowing where else to run because they've had everything taken from them emotionally and are acting out of that being violated to try and get through that...
2006-11-24 16:06:24 · answer #3 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a 29 year old woman and that is one fantasy I won't be having anytime soon. She may have been raped as a child or something and that is why she has that fantasy.
2006-11-24 15:57:32 · answer #4 · answered by The Steele's 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes I have met women who will play this fantasy with someone they know and trust. It doesn't mean that they would like to be raped any more than a man having homosexual fantasies would like to actually practice the act.
Play along, with a smile on your face knowing that she knows its you, and not reality.
And be proud that she trusts you with that information.
2006-11-24 16:04:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um not really
I'm suprised at the level of trust she must have had to confide something so sordid to you.
Being dominated is common for women though
2006-11-24 15:59:10 · answer #6 · answered by somebody cares 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is not something I would be into.... I would rather have sex with another woman (or two or three) than act out a rape fantasy.
2006-11-24 19:38:40 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad you dumped her. I wouldn't say it was necessarily uncommon, but it is dangerous. She would be putting you in legal jeopardy and it does sound a bit odd.
Imagine what would have happened if she started screaming and a neighbour came over. You could have gone to jail. Maybe dumping her was a bit extreme, but her asking you to do that was also quite bizarre. I wouldn't do it, but that's just me.
2006-11-24 15:59:02 · answer #8 · answered by Aegor R 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its not the RAPE thats hott... is the UNKNOWN. Obviously if she gave you a key, she would know it was you in some way... but being a little unsure about who you are having sex with... that is the key!
2006-11-24 15:57:21 · answer #9 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness no. She is obviously a little messed up for her to want something like that. I am glad you didn't go through with it. For one, if you did, she could come back and file rape charges against you. Just a thought. Good luck!
2006-11-24 15:57:52 · answer #10 · answered by freakykittygoddess 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋