For better or worse I inherited my mom's incredible libido. She told me not to love just one at least until I finished my university studies and had my degrees, lest having a single relationship interfere with my studies. So far everything is excellent. But am I the only very happy polyamourous girl out here? It might seem so from the Qs and As in this and similar categories!
2006-11-24 07:48:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Haha, I wish I was polyamorous, I'd have more than one love if I could. My mom actually gives me that advice too, but polyamory can have it's complications. Like I have crushes on more than one guy at a time, and then I take whichever one asks me out first or such. But in your case, you get to do more than just settle for one. Most people on this q and a are stressed out by having one lover, getting one crush to like them, and focusing on one person. Maybe polyamorous people aren't as insecure.
2006-11-24 07:53:10 · answer #1 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh i just wish I had your nerve! Right now the most adventurous thing I've done is to take a no commitments lover. I used to be so inhibited , now my attitudes are relaxing.
Just be aware that because of the way society is, you can't really be that way forever.
People will get married, your friends will get married, and maybe not want you hanging around their husbands. The time will come when you will long for more, a settled relationship.
Till then, sow your wild oats, and have fun!!!
2006-11-24 15:55:17 · answer #2 · answered by somebody cares 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your mother is right. You are alright. If you are happy being polyamourous, Stay that way. Its a good thing.
2006-11-24 15:51:53 · answer #3 · answered by Honey 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
And I imagine bisexual as well...the problem that's going to rear it's ugly head is: how do you keep them down on the farm, after they've seen Paris? You're setting a precedent you can't halt unless you find a guy with a libido to match and keep him as interested as you are for the rest of your lives, which is highly unlikely...
2006-11-24 15:51:57 · answer #4 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I love to do it with a lot of different guys too, so do most, but won't admit it. Use condoms though, every time. Having an STD puts a damper on things sometimes.
2006-11-24 15:51:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to be like you, but then I realized that it was taking up to much time and energy...now I put all my limbido into my BF and we are very happy. Then, too, you will have more time for your studies if he will leave ya alone and vice versa!!!!!!
2006-11-24 15:56:40 · answer #6 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just enjoy yourself.....as long as you are using condoms there is no harm in it.......maybe you will meet someone who makes you feel you don't need anyone else, but until then have fun finding out what you like!
2006-11-24 15:51:36 · answer #7 · answered by Kate 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, poyamourous? We used to call that slutty. Not that I am against it or anything. Just noting the observation.
2006-11-24 15:57:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you make it sound like you think you should be a guest on Oprah.
2006-11-29 21:12:18 · answer #9 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess it is true that the apple doesnt fall far from the tree. you and your mom are text book harlots. you know women that sleep with more than one man.
2006-11-25 17:11:47 · answer #10 · answered by Thumbs down me now 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋