all out the window. Should we slow down? we love each other and there is NO doubt about it but I am his first REAL girlfriend and although I want to be his last and he wants that too...but Im not sure what we should do. we havent even been dating that long...HELP!?
2006-11-24 07:48:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to evaluate why it's "out the window."
I would definitely advise to slow down, and wait! If you're going to be his last girlfriend, you will have your entire lives to enjoy "it"!! I know you've heard it before, but love doesn't equal sex. I've seen a lot of people who thought they'd be together forever break up because they went too far in their relationship. Step back.
2006-11-24 07:52:13 · answer #1 · answered by Happy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi...well if i understand it ..you an him had s.. i not sure i can help you but iam 44 an have been mared 2 times ..an now am seeing a girl an we have talked about s.. too we have been dating for 1 month an i think that waiting is a good thing because you never know what is ahead of you an when you take that step cross that line you have changed it all ...now just try too stay with him /her because i have lived with the fact that my frist love is not with me the thoughts of her so i hope this helps you some
2006-11-24 16:03:29 · answer #2 · answered by suze_hall21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just becasue he gave it up to you doesnt mean you are spending the rest of your life together. 2 months is hardly long enough to really know someone let alone know that you are in love. I know you will do what you want but like some of the others said it wont last...you can slow down...nothing wrong with that. good luck
2006-11-24 15:53:56 · answer #3 · answered by magdamay34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you have someone who truly respect you and your future and looking out for his own as well! Don't you see, that premature sex leads to defeat, lies, untrustworthy, and ruined both of your relationship. Yes slow down! You have someone who really cares and truly respect you, don't let your hormonal imbalance rages both of you into a situation that it will be hard to come out of! God made sex, for a man and woman in marriage and yes, sex is beatiful, pleasaburale, and just wonderful emotions to experience. So many people have abuse sex, and made it to turn to be power for them, and ruins of turmoils of their lives. Be sure, get married and make sure that this is the man that you want to spend the rest of your life with, and to love, honour, and obey! Yes, I did say obey. That is the key of marriage! Men want the control of their family and the final say so. If we women really act like women of feminie nature, there would not be so much divorce and cheating! I hope this helps.
2006-11-24 15:58:54 · answer #4 · answered by ourjacobdavid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're the one not sure about your relationship lasting long enough to reach the altar. I do think you two should slow down and get to know one another more.
2006-11-24 15:57:33 · answer #5 · answered by Revelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol well ill say this. i hope that he didnt say that to impress you. 2 months was all he could last? probably done this before
my current gf was my first real one too same for her and though i had no intention of saving my soul for marriage i did save it for someone worth it ;o)
so just take it easy day by day. if he finds you special he wouldnt have any regrets about this. so keep going....2months though....
2006-11-24 15:52:39 · answer #6 · answered by frostyg02uk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save yourselves for each other until after you're married. You've waited this long, so you can wait a little longer.
2006-11-24 15:52:09 · answer #7 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't do it then. You sounds too young and I can predict with much accuracy that you WON'T be his last girlfriend.
2006-11-24 15:50:57 · answer #8 · answered by twest_dgo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you guys are young. Wait.. there's no hurry. Plus, he wanted to save it.. help him with that..
2006-11-24 15:51:27 · answer #9 · answered by Rachael M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait longer than two months especially if ure his first girlfriend
2006-11-24 15:52:18 · answer #10 · answered by Lg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋