Does everyone eventually find love?

Question

The Greatest thing you will ever learn.....Is how to LOVE and be LOVED in return! So true + yet so hard to find + do. Will it ever happen? Does it ever happen can two people be truely in love with each other at the same time or is it just a fairy tale?
I find that most are just after one thing lol and that aint about love.

Answer 1

People who answer yes are just romantics, people who say no are just cynics.

Here is the truth. You might - but you might not. The only thing you can do is be open to it finding you. You can't force it and there's no guarantees. But see the best in everyone, be yourself and you never know, it just might happen. Probably just when you least expect it.

Be happy whatever.

Answer 2

please don't count on it! Get a good job and be financially secure so you never need to kid yourself by saying "oh im so in love, when actually you just desparate" Enjoy life! If you find someone great, but being single is really not that awful. It's being with the right person that is wonderful (happens to very few) otherwise there would be so much divorce. People just work at relationships or stay in relationship which are going nowhere,and don't let them tell you different, the facts and statistics speak for them selves. Not the dafties who don't think (they the ones who divorce).

Answer 3

Well, it is a pretty intense question. One person cannot tell you that you will love eventually, you have to tell yourself that and believe it. If your standards are high, than your probably more likely to end up alone, but if you will just settle for anyone, you will probably just get those who are after one thing. My best advice to you, if you're currently having this problem, is to stay open minded, but know what you want in a relationship.

Answer 4

yes ma dear!d greatest thing is to love and to be loved.yes its so hard 2 find but once u stop lookin u mite realise dat its rite in ur face,u just haven't looked hard enuf.being in love is a reality and u can make it a fairytale,there's nothing that compares 2 being in love

Answer 5

i think MOST do, but not all. there are some people that are happy with just themselves and never really fall in love or experience having that significant other in their lives. im VERY glad to be one who has experienced real love. it changes you and makes you a better person. i wish everyone could experience this kind of love

Answer 6

it usually starts with an initial physical attraction. you get to know each other along the way and then when you have sex you find out if you only liked them for sex or if you find that after sex, one or both of you cant find anything else to talk about.

relationships are built on a foundation of friendship. so then once you ve done 'it" your relationship will temporarily choose to fall back one step to rethink what just happened, and if you have that strong foundation to fall back on then you should be safe, otherwise shes saying "i need more time"

Answer 7

I think you have to be open to love. And let it find you.

But it never hurts to help it along. Go to youth groups or singles groups. Go where the single people are. Make connections in the real world and not just the internet.

The only way to tell if you'll like someone is to meet them. Then just be yourself and let love find you.

Answer 8

I hope so. But, I think it's whatever God has planned for your life. If he plans for you to find someone, then it will happen. If not, then it won't. I've always felt that where ever you are in life, is where you are supposed to be. And if you aren't with anyone, then that's not what was planned for you.

Answer 9

Nope, never happens, it is just a fairy tale

Answer 10

yes but not necessarily the love you are talking about. for some people, the greatest love is the love that they feel for their children, friends, or parents...