But he said he feels disgusting becuz of our age difference. is 4 years really that big of a deal? what should i do to make him understand how much we love eachother? should i give him some time and when should i talk to him again if so?
2006-11-24 07:43:33 · 10 answers · asked by lady_blaze212 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on your aactual ages. If you're 16 and he's 12 or 20, that makes a difference. He's either too old or too young for you. If you're 24 and he's 20, it depends how socially mature he is. If he's 28, no big deal. If you're 30 and he's 26, no problem.
2006-11-24 07:46:59 · answer #1 · answered by TitoBob 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on where the age difference lies. If you are both over 18, then it is not a big deal. If you are 14 or 15 and he is 18 or 19, it is a difference to take into acccount. If he is over 18 and you are a minor, he also has to worry about the law if you two decided to have sex.
If you are like 11 or 12, then he has reason to feel that way and you should not even consider trying to change his mind until you are old enough to be considered as girl friend material.
2006-11-24 15:53:31 · answer #2 · answered by pessimoptimist 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a big deal if you're 16 and he's 20. But if you're say 21 and he's 25 then no. If you have to do something to make him understand you're in love with each other then, I hate to say it, he's probably not in love with you and time won't change that. In which case he's not the one. There are plenty of guys out there who don't need convincing. The One will love you without condition and not allow you to torture yourself over the relationship.
2006-11-24 15:48:32 · answer #3 · answered by MuffinWife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if that is how he feels it is very unlikely that you will change his mind... I think it is just a way for him to not be with you because 4 years isn't that bad.. I was 19 and with a 35 year old man when I was on the dating scene........ So just talk to him about it and if he still says the same thing it is time to walk away an find someone who will love you.
2006-11-24 15:48:32 · answer #4 · answered by evil_fallen_angel41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Disgusting is not a word used when you love someone....and why should you make him understand how much you love each other? Doesn't he knows it? or feel it?
Deep inside is not in love with you and those are signal that read as follows: "I'm trying to get out and I feel stuck"...so your though should be: "I deserve better...and run run away from him as soon as you can"
2006-11-24 15:49:45 · answer #5 · answered by peach_tree67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 years is nothing and if he loved you it wouldn't matter, sounds like an excuse because he doesn't want to be with you - ask him what the real reason is.
Unless of course you are under 16 then maybe give him a bit of lea way.....
2006-11-24 15:47:50 · answer #6 · answered by Kate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not that big of an age difference...but it depends on how old you are...If your 12 and he is 16 that is kina nasty but if its like 24 and 28 that dosen't matter
2006-11-24 15:46:16 · answer #7 · answered by i_no_the_answer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how old the two of you are. If you're both over 20, then he's got issues. If not, then you need to wait as he's just doing what is sensible.
2006-11-24 15:46:14 · answer #8 · answered by tipper 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
4 years is not that much. my mom and dad r five years apart. and they love eachother. try to work it out with him.
2006-11-24 15:47:23 · answer #9 · answered by Willie S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does age really matter? i mean people say, "its the inside that counts, not the outside"
2006-11-24 15:45:57 · answer #10 · answered by :D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋