My girlfriend of four and a half years, had earlier on broken with another guy and which left her devastated. All this time we have never made love though she loves me so much and I know she is not involved elsewhere.She is very hot tempered though. She has asked for more time. My problem is, how possible it could be for a lady who was having sex before to stay without it for 4 years. Is it possible or am missing something and she may be involved with a guy secretly ?
2006-11-24 07:33:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
4.5 years...no sex? That's kind of odd. Not saying it's bad, just odd. What you need to know is why she broke up with that other dude. Did he force himself on her? Has she ever had an abortion? Those might make a lady less likely to jump in the sack with you.
If you really wanna stop wasting time and know for sure why.....JUST ASK HER. communication man, communication
2006-11-24 07:40:26 · answer #1 · answered by justforthisonepost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know she probably is, but if you're still around after 4 and a half years, you're doing something right, so I wouldn't worry about it too much. but you want to be that guy though; so you may have to actually broach the subject and stop tip-toeing around it. you have to do it in a way though that it isn't giving off the impression that it is the reason you've been around for 4 and a half years, because honestly, if that were the case, you could have left 4 years ago.
give her the time. if it were me I'd find something else to do while i was waiting though; most i ever waited was like 2 months or so. thing about it is though, if you have a good relationship, why is it important to you if that happens or not? a lot of time we use that as a way to judge the relationship, how close we are to that other person, or not, whatever.
you need to know why this is the case, and why it is so easy for her and so hard for you. their may be some issues surrounding it, as to why she doesn't want to go there again. the bottom line is, once you stop pressing the issue, and show her that you're there for her regardless, it'll probably happen. you've got a true romantic at heart; always in your best interests, but you have to be in it for the long haul to really appreciate them.
2006-11-24 07:44:54 · answer #2 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to admit I am a little bit on your husband's side. I think kids are tested and given medication WAY too often. There are all different kinds of people. Not all kids can sit and listen, just like not all adults can. I would at least wait until he is in school and see what they say. If it is dissrupting his learning than check it out. I have heard that diet can make a HUGE difference in behavior. I would try that before I tried medication. If you do use meds then he will always be having his dose increased and who knows what he will be on when he is older. I am not against medication, I just think it is too often the first choice, especially by teachers who have a class of 25-30 five year olds, and one or two aren't behaving in a way they would like.
2016-05-22 22:50:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She coulde be..or she got hurt REAL bad. Why the hot temper? Is something bothering her that u do not know about? Talk to her.
2006-11-24 07:42:20 · answer #4 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever thought that the reason she is so bad tempered is cos she's not getting any sex?
There is no way she would go without for 4.5 years unless she has no-one to screw her. Maybe she thinks theres something wrong with you.
2006-11-24 07:36:54 · answer #5 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey is possible...Is no mistery to go with out it for 4 and a 1/2 years I don't see such big deal...
2006-11-24 07:39:19 · answer #6 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is possible but not likely it seems weird to me , mayeb something happened and now hses afraid too you shoudl ask her four years is a logn time and i dunt believe it
2006-11-24 07:38:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's been that long she isn't interested in you sexually. You are wasting your time if you want a loving, passionate woman. Move on...you deserve more.
2006-11-24 07:38:13 · answer #8 · answered by honey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that IS strange but if she was with another man why would she need you? its not like she went off sex she never gave it you in the first place. so id be worried...but about her not myself.
2006-11-24 07:37:18 · answer #9 · answered by frostyg02uk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its still a big thing to have sex, just give it time, and don't take it really offencivly if she says no! and if she had one bad experance she proberly doesn't want to experance it again, so give her some space on it and don't get all offended if she says know, and if she says yes, just do what she wants to (if you see what i mean)
2006-11-24 07:37:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋