So I've receive your answers.Thank you all.Some one says he's my man.He is not ok.He's a friend.Yes am scared to have feelings for someone.I've never been in an intimate relationship.I am sure I want to wait on the Lord.I am a positive self control person I just don't want to sin in any way.Now that I told him about your answers I also must admit he told me the same things also.One more question. I want to wait on the Lord.And I know I will.How can I keep enjoying talking to him and not keep feeling guilty?Please give me some tips or points or something realistic that I can follow step by step. Thank you all and God bless you.
2006-11-24 07:30:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being a God's girl means we need to know what his purpose is for you in your walk with christ! Is this guy a born again? Does he respect your boundraies, and keeping yourself pure for your husband in the future? If you feel guilty, then you know that this is not God's will for you. Be patient, wait on the Lord. Pray and ask for his guidance about this guy and you together, and does it really honour God! Are you in prayer life, and done your regular scriptures readings daily? If not, then you need to be, so you can feel God's answers and know where he guides you in your life and walk. Remember ask yourself questions about you and god's relationship. If you are not in good relationship with God, then how could you really be in relationship with anyone else?
Just a thought, IN Crist love and reminder and sister in christ!
2006-11-24 07:48:51 · answer #1 · answered by ourjacobdavid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I even have by no ability considered lots element interior the Bible than interior the area of judgment. yet it somewhat is this very situation the place a lot of human beings, Christians coated, get it so incorrect. listed under are in basic terms some uncomplicated techniques. A Christian is by no ability to ex-communicate or condemn - Matthew 7:one million A Christian is to not choose a non-Christian - one million Corinthians 5:13 A Christian IS think to choose somebody claiming to be a believer - one million Corinthians 5:12 A non-believer's judgment consists of no weight with God - one million Corinthians 2:15 The Christian is judged on an prevalent basis precise now, the non-believer later - one million Peter 4:17 because of the fact the believer's previous nature is ineffective and is born returned in Christ, the tip judgment will not shop on with. - John 5:24
2016-10-13 01:05:13 · answer #2 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am also a Christan if you feel guilty you got to let it out ok. it is like stress if you feel that way you got to go tell the man the way you fell. I also am waiting on the lord. I don't want any kind of sexual relationships right now I am not ready for it yet.If you need someone to talk too here is my address
2006-11-24 07:37:19 · answer #3 · answered by lady_of_chase 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but does 'waiting on the Lord' entail staying celibate until you die? Or, are you waiting until He actually manifests himself in a human form for you to take advantage of the corporeal form of gratification?? I just like to know the ground rules so I can make an informed reply when somebody makes a statement like that in front of me...
2006-11-24 07:38:46 · answer #4 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you had self control you shouldn't have any problem here. if he is pressuring you then he doesn't really care about you because he wouldn't disrespect your views. Also do you honestly think you are without sin now? Making a statement like not wanting to sin in anyway...we are sinners all of us...everyday.
2006-11-24 07:49:09 · answer #5 · answered by magdamay34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that god will condemn you for talking to someone of the opposite sex, you have been misinformed. God made us social creatures with the desire to share our lives with all of mankind, not just our own sex. Guilt is self abuse and a terrible waste of time. enjoy your talks and trust that god doesn't judge you regarding such matters.
2006-11-24 07:34:18 · answer #6 · answered by Sue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey keep it just the way you think and don't make any quilt make you change yor mind about wait... The way you are going is how you wnt it so be it...Good luck!!!
2006-11-24 07:36:11 · answer #7 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you and he are on the same page. so distance is the key. you trust God. now you should have boundaries that you both respect and establish a great friendship
2006-11-24 07:34:49 · answer #8 · answered by deedeex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then wait girl-whats big deal?
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2006-11-24 07:36:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋