i work for a night club and there is this girl who comes every friday to party. i have spoken to her a couple of times but nothing more. but she is beautiful and i would love to go out with her and take it from there. i think i love her. HELP
2006-11-24 07:27:12 · 11 answers · asked by ragyad 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd really like to take you out sometime - would you like to come with me to a film, or meal?
Answer: Yes, that would be nice
Answer: No thank you - just smile and say 'Oh well, I thought it was worth a try. - then change the subject quickly.
Nothing like having your lollipop taken away to want it back!
2006-11-24 07:31:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey man one word :relax. Be yourself. I mean like if you're shy show it but you still gotta go see her. Like just go see her and ask her out. Just try not to say it at the beginning say it more at the end of the party. Oh especially find out more about her. If she likes partying don't go 2 some boring restaurant . And make sure she does not already have a boy friend.
2006-11-24 07:35:37 · answer #2 · answered by The Diver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing find out if shes single,if she is the next time she comes in strike up a brief conversation,ask if shes free tomorrow night,if so ask if she'd like to catch a movie,dinner,drinks etc.just remember if she declines be respectful that shows that ur not just another jerkoff.she may return another day and take u up on the offer.if not so be it.
two things to remember,
1)always other fish in the sea
2)everybody goes through rejection"everybody"
2006-11-24 08:05:57 · answer #3 · answered by Jason M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really have to re-examine the situation. However, you need to express your feeling with her. Just ask her “would you mind to go out with me for a cup of tea or something” and see the reaction. If you find it ideal for you make it or leave it. There is nothing wrong if you just express your feeling. Sooner is the better. Good Luck
2006-11-24 07:37:16 · answer #4 · answered by angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all chill!!!!
you cant love someone you dont know.
secondly get a friday night off (ive worked in 2 nightclubs so i know its possible) and say to her
"i have next friday night off so i was wondering would like to go for a drink and dance with me next friday?"
if she says yes swop numbers and afterwards say "i hope you enjoy your night, you know where i am if you want a chat later!" if she is really interested she will come and talk later on to you.
good luck!
2006-11-24 07:31:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and then when you start to get a long then ask her to go out to the cinema with you the perfect way always works
2006-11-24 07:31:32 · answer #6 · answered by Foxy lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say hi whould you like to go out with me some time
2006-11-24 07:29:23 · answer #7 · answered by res71guns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk right up to them and ask them out.
2006-11-24 07:31:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets see just say you wanna go to a movie wit me
2006-11-24 07:29:06 · answer #9 · answered by 100% Español 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well just go up 2 her and say "will u go out w/ me" ok
2006-11-24 07:30:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋