I was hurt pretty bad when this happend. I really loved her and yet this happend. Should I be blamed for this happening or is it her fault entirely? Deep inside I have sick feelings inside and guilt as well.
2006-11-24 07:25:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why would you think this is your fault, and have sick feelings and guilt inside? That's a choice your ex made and you can't take the blame for what she did unless you held a gun on her and made her do it. I'm sure she knew how this would make you feel and it may not be the first time this has happened. Sleeping with her best friend is something this girl has had in the back of her mind all along. If he's her best friend, then he knew she had someone, and this has been in the back of his mind all along as well. Loving someone doesn't mean they'll love you back. If you love someone who doesn't love you, the relationship is going to be one-sided and you'll be on the lesser side. If you think you deserve better, then treat yourself better. So, stop torturing and being mean to yourself. Hold your head up with diginity and self-respect because you haven't done anything wrong.
2006-11-24 08:38:27 · answer #1 · answered by merry59 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Matt is not a friend and Erinne was never the girl you thought she was. They both used you in way and it's unforgiven,. Karma will set them both straight but in order to move you must forgive them both for not Knowing any better and thank them for doing you a favor. Imagine if you married Erinne and she slept with every guy she could. How many times would you forgive her and she do the same in return? I think you were more in love with her and not the other way around. Life goes on kiddo and you will meet someone some day that will make your heart flutter and whispers your name every waking hour. People do things we can never understand but with these 2 you deserve a better friend and partner. So leave them in the past and move towards your future. god speed bro.
2016-05-22 22:49:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey is not your fault at all...No you no to be blamed for what happend...I recomended that you go on and never think that because some one that you loved cheat on you everyboy is going to still out there good people that want to be in a good realtionship and that won't cheat...Good luck and just looking ahead not the past.
2006-11-24 07:32:40 · answer #3 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No baby, it's not ur fault. 2 months from now u will not be feeling bad about it. So, y don't get that attitude now. Accept what ever happened. Best of luck for you new gfd. Cheers...
2006-11-24 07:31:37 · answer #4 · answered by Pravesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its really hard to say. Think back to how your relationship with her was. How were u 2 eachother? Did you have an argument before it happened? Do you still talk? Maybe you need to ask her to find your answer (you'll know if she's telling the truth). But that is part of life, don't beat yourself up about it. Life must go on. One
2006-11-24 07:30:06 · answer #5 · answered by short 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not your fault that your girlfriend was a ho. But, there is a lesson there. Be wary of women with guy friends. Most guys don't want to be just friends with a woman and not try to have sex with them.
2006-11-24 07:29:12 · answer #6 · answered by Chris J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are humans not animals. There for we have free will to make choices. She made her choice to be deceitful and hurtful. How could this be your fault in anyway? No, it is not your fault. Good luck and God bless****
2006-11-24 07:36:01 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is your ex! why would you have a problem with this? its not your fault unless you forced them to do it. Maybe they love each other, ever thought of that?
2006-11-24 07:33:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is your fault!
If you had been doing her girlfriend it would have never happened!
2006-11-24 07:31:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not urs , diiferent ppl have different mentality.stop blaming urself for her being a cheat.......and get along wiht ur life and find a new girl.and remember...................FEEL HAPPY TO SAY BYE TO WHATS GONE< BECOZ IT NEVER WAS YOURS>ELSE YOUR WOULDNT HAVE HAD TO SAY BYE
2006-11-24 07:30:57 · answer #10 · answered by ria j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋