I had sex with this woman twice and some forplay - now, it all got cold. She says she doesnt want to fall in love and hates me showing affection. Now, we just hang out as friends - I would like her to be my girlfriend. Any advice, I do respect her and care about her.
2006-11-24 07:18:30 · 8 answers · asked by rareicon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she is ok with being ur girlfriend(a friend who is a girl ), so whats the big issue. u want her as ur lover, thts wht she doesnt want.
so be her friend, and even by mistake if she asks u to have sex with her, dont go and have it,tell her, i just intent to be ur friend ,nothing more.........play the game the opposite way...and see the result. and mind u ,dont go gaga-gogo over her, infact dont show much attention to her , or praise her, just act in a normal way u wud to other female friends.meanwhile try to be in company with her and some other females too...........and show tht extra attention to one among them, and make her feeel tht sting of jealousy
2006-11-24 07:25:49 · answer #1 · answered by ria j 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Looks like you picked the wrong woman to want as a girlfriend. Find someone that wants your affection. She just wants sex from you. Don't waste your time.
2006-11-24 07:28:52 · answer #2 · answered by Revelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you respect her as you say you do, then let her have her space. If she wants another go-round with you, you'll be the first to know; but pushing the issue is just going to make her think you were a bad choice of friend in the first place!
2006-11-24 07:20:40 · answer #3 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have asked her before you made love to her what she was looking for in a relationship. On the other hand freindship is always good. Until she finds someone else and then you'll know it was'nt meant to be.
2006-11-24 07:21:37 · answer #4 · answered by My two cents 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you know how it goes, if you love 'em let 'em go, if they come back and all that jargon.
back off, give her a chance to miss you and if she doesnt miss you then a roll in the hay is all it was. and like she said, she doesnt seem to care about you the same way you do.
2006-11-24 07:25:32 · answer #5 · answered by situatednut 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AWW she just wants to use you for sex and that is it so I wouldn't count her to be the one for you she is just an F buddy if you want more you need to get a girlfriend but this is not the one for you
2006-11-24 07:20:05 · answer #6 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just wants a 'boy toy' if you want more, time to move on to bigger and better things............
2006-11-24 07:21:13 · answer #7 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her how u feel
2006-11-24 07:30:11 · answer #8 · answered by First L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋