I feel guilty every time my girl gives me oral sex.....should I?

Question

Me and my girl havent had sex yet(it'll be pretty soon though)but at the moment we're foolin around doing other stuff. Well she is. She wont let me go down on her(says she wants to wait til we have sex) but she goes down on me. I feel really selfish and guilty. She says she enjoys it but i cant shake the guilt. Is whats happening wrong? I mean should i not let her do stuff for me until i can do something for her?

Answer 1

You are a good man, knowing that you'd like to return the favor and to make her feel good...that is just awesome. Now as far as what you can do for her...
1) give her a massage (back, feet etc)
2) have her lie down on the couch with her head on your lap (face up), while she is laying there gently rub her temples and scalp.
Don't feel guilty about her showing you pleasure, if she didn't want to do it she wouldn't. Don't worry your time will come to please her sexually...and when it does you guys will have all sorts of fun together.

Answer 2

Hold up you might not like what i gotta say, but some one has to break it down for your girlfriends sake. YOUR WRONG, and you deserve to feel guilty. The correct term for what you did with her best friend is cheated. You not only need to break up with her cause obviously she's to good for you. You also need to stay with that back stabbing friend to. And let your girlfriend know so she can get rid of you and the back stabbing *****.Plus if she would betray her best friend just to give a b/j, don't think she want cheat on you to. In what world is okay to dump your girl for her best friend, just cause your girl doesn't give a b/j. Doing **** like that is how you get a disease. I hope your girlfriends finds, out and dumps yo ***, and beats the **** out of that girl. And finds a better man and a better friend. Cause both of Y'll suck......

Answer 3

Well just tell her that you will wait too so it can be exiting for both of you. Say if she wants to wait then you will wait with her. This will make her feel good because it lets her know that you don't want to be a sex hog and you rather wait until she is ready to do anything with your bodies. Thats what i would do in this situation.

Answer 4

You might ask her to rub herself while she is pleasuring you. That way, you can both have an orgasm and she will feel as good as you. It is very unfulfilling for a woman to watch a man climax and not climax herself. My guess is she is doing it after you leave so you might as well be there to see it. BTW, mutual masturbation is the best!!!

Answer 5

Nah, don't feel guilty. She will eventually want you to return the favor. Making you happy is what makes her happy right now. When she is ready for you, she will let you know.

Answer 6

Nope don't feel guilty...but make sure it's a female and if so make sure she doesn't have STDS. Sorry but that's weird. But hey enjoy do not feel guilty if she insists!

Answer 7

How can I say this tactfully...

Dude you're the luckiest guy in the world. How many guys would trade places with you in one nano second.

Enjoy but be sure to give her hers when the time comes.

Answer 8

I knew a girl who wouldn't let anyone go down on her until she got married. But she gave head to the men she dated. She wanted to be considered a virgin? WTF? She is 35 and still doing the same thing. I don't know maybe's she wants to be called a virgin until she walks down the alter.

Answer 9

Of course not, she volunteered. Just make sure you make it up to her when you guys get busy.

Have fun and enjoy

Answer 10

If youre feeling bad about it then tell her to stop until she'll let you do it to her.