My reason is that I am failing sixth form as i spend my time there or at work or with him. I need to cut something out as its too much for me,i actually have no time at all. And im becoming ill because of it. But my boyfriend loves me more than anything and i dont want to hurt him. But my future and my health is more important,right?
2006-11-24 07:10:20 · 14 answers · asked by xx_coralie_xx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your health is very important. You need to do what will make you happy. You need time for yourself.
2006-11-24 07:21:49 · answer #1 · answered by bunny 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe take a break for a few weeks, see how that works out. Or cut back on work. tell your boss you need a bit more time for yourself / studies. Dont make yerself ill. Its not worth it
2006-11-25 04:23:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loves you then dont do it... you'll regret. if he loves you he will understand your time, and the time you make for him, if he complains about the time you make for him then drop it. wenever your stressed dont forget you can always rely on him for all your cuddles, ive just split up coz things wernt working out, its really horrible i feel empty. im also at uni and working, aswell as have greater responsibilities at home since am the eldest and have a big family. i used to turn to my fella once wen he loved me. now i cry every night coz i miss him being around, i guess it also depends on how long you've known him for. wel woteva you do girl think carefully, not every1 has sum1 who loves them all the time, majority of the time you get pricks just climbing up your legs for sex and thats it, so its hard to find sum1 who actually loves you. but gudluck with wot u do....
2006-11-24 07:50:26 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetie.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..if your considering breaking up with him for something like this, you obviously dont love him much, yes your future and your health are important, but really, can you ever be happy without someone to love, yes you may have to cut something out of your life, but why cut out something so sacred, but i guess if your willing to consider it, you probably dont love him, and are therefore waisting his time
2006-11-24 07:23:40 · answer #4 · answered by Ethernaut 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think of all the pluses,if you break up till you finish your education,you may find a better guy,you wont be to worn out to enjoy your time together so that's more for than against
2006-11-24 07:15:07 · answer #5 · answered by barnowl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
¿Is there no third way on sight?
If it's a matter of juncture you could try to keep your boyfriend away for a time (a middle difficulty jigsaw works with most men -I'm one-). (a)
If it's a matter of structure you'll have any chance but to choose, job or boyfriend. (b)
The hard thing is to honestly determine if it's a or b.
2006-11-24 07:18:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i got an idea, why dont you say i think we need a break; i love you wit all my heart but i just need a week to catch up wit all my work ect and then wen u od c each other again you'll be even more inlove than before and you'll be ontop of all your work
2006-11-25 22:40:59 · answer #7 · answered by devils sweetheart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends how important he is to u. u mite regret it 1day and maybe then it will be to late. y dont u try seeing him less and trying to juggle ur other bits of ur life2 take some me time. dont b to hastey. after all u have to think can u bear to see him with someone else!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-24 07:22:39 · answer #8 · answered by haze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont break up with him cos of that. You have identified the problem. just have more time for yourself and your studies.
2006-11-24 07:23:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes do it. just be honest with him.
sounds like you have thought hard about this.
get your grades i wish i had done that.
there are so many guys out there enjoy them when your young as it can be harder to get them when you get older.
2006-11-24 07:14:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋