ok so me an my boyfriend have a long distance realtionship and we only see each other like every other week or like every 3 weeks when we see each other it seems like thats all i want to do i want to have sex with him like 3 times a day for like 4 days in a row he says that thats all i use him for do you think thats we are having to much sex and should he really feel like thats all i use him for???
2006-11-24 07:09:59 · 11 answers · asked by *LaTiNa_BoNiTa* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nah, you're perfectly normal. You don't see each other very often and having sex is a way of showing how much you care about a person or how much you've missed him. If you saw him every day, it might be different. He should probably feel the same way about you. Good Luck!
2006-11-24 07:14:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...... let me see here...I'm still looking for it...Oh there it is, let me dial the fire department cause that is so hot its on fire. I basically have two girlfriends. One that is 18 and another that I live with and she is 42. the 18 yr.old loves sex of course and sounds alot like you when it comes to this subject. The 42 yr old however is not bad at sex just not as good or nearly as often but most importantly she does not seem to have the passion as though a little lust is there to say spice it up a little. But intimacy is key and the 42 yr old just doesn't seem to have the same passion or expression as I or the 18 yr old. But I would just be sure he knows you need him in many ways. If you are cheating though, you will end up in the same mess I am in. Good luck.
2006-11-24 15:45:20 · answer #2 · answered by nitsud 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men, unlike women, need a little time between sessions to recharge. They aren't the Energizer bunny!
That said, do you and your boyfriend do anything other than have sex when you see each other? It sounds like there are a few issues going on here...
You can't replace or mistake intimacy with sex. Real intimacy involves more than getting horizontal with someone. It sounds like he wants to be reassured that while you find him sexy, you also love him as the unique individual he is.
It could be that you both have different libidos. In that case, get a vibrator so that you're not all over him when you get to be with him. (Remember the scene in There's Something About Mary where he masturbates before going out on a date with her?)
Good luck to you.
2006-11-24 15:20:42 · answer #3 · answered by Joyce H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you love him too much and that's the way you like to demonstrate it.
I'd like a girl like you.
Suerte
2006-11-24 15:13:07 · answer #4 · answered by O_o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg thats crazy, ur a sex addict, find something else to do
2006-11-24 15:12:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a sex things
2006-11-24 15:13:07 · answer #6 · answered by bored 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your fine.. and you are just making up for missing him when he is away.... dont worry it is ok... and if he thinks your only using him for sex... wow is he missing the boat....
2006-11-24 15:14:03 · answer #7 · answered by fred Flintstone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should feel the same way about you...
You are very normal...
2006-11-24 15:11:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, but maybe do some other stuff too.Sex rox but he may want to do other stuff together too.
2006-11-24 15:12:37 · answer #9 · answered by Makoa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a more mature guy...he sounds strange
2006-11-24 15:11:57 · answer #10 · answered by chastityelizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋