Your 'type'?

Question

I admit it, I am only friends with guys that I find attractive in some way or another. If by nothing more than I like their smile. I have learned from 'Y!answers' that I am not alone in doing this. But, having such a wide variety of guy-friends is a BAD thing for me as well, because I have found that I am just not some guys' 'type of girl'. That they would date.

When I ask "well...what is wrong with me?" it opens a whole NEW can of worms.

I don't smell. I'm not easy. I don't judge people. I'm not clingy. I'm not pushy.

Sorry, this just turned into a rant....ahem..

So...my question is - guys, what is YOUR type of girl? Does something rule certain girls out completely out in your book?

Answer 1

Strictly feelings and chemistry... not something you could dissect with a listing...

Answer 2

I am pretty sure I answered this question before... from you.... Because I remember that curious look, the glasses and the green shirt.
I hate to say it but you are asking the wrong question. You should be asking: why I am not "his type"?
Every guy has a different type of girl. Believe it or not, not everyone wants a Barbie shaped slu.t. Some physical attraction must be present in order to develop a relationship, but its not the most important part.
You, like most people use the "friend card" when trying to get to know someone. You dont flirt, or try to make yourself noticed, you just try the friend thing, because you and everyone else knows its the safest way.
However, being just a friend will eventually land you in the friend zone and from there you will find yourself in a point of no return.
i bet it kills you when your guyfriends tell you about other girls or how they like her and the other one or how they tell you things about their girlfriends like you are not a girl...
Email me.... I find your situation very interesting.. I was there [e-mail]

Answer 3

Women think its being naggy or ugly that rules them out. Its not. There is a certain quality a woman has to have. Its a subtle confidence. Its the way they carry themselves. They are self assured but bitchy. They carry themselves like ladies but there is something right under the surface that leads you to believe they are animals in bed.

Turn-offs are when women try too hard. If every guy knows he could have you as a girl friend if he wanted, he's not going to try.

Answer 4

Deal breakers:
Talks on the phone all the time, and ignores people who are actually there
Smoker
Bit@hy personality
Sleeps around too much
Talks all the time and never says anything
Fat
Too short
Bad hygiene
Lots of male friends
Boring

Answer 5

The only girls I rule out are the ones who act/look butch. The rest of you are all fair game where I am concerned. White Balck Asian, Native American, European,Pagan, Christian,Other.Perhaps you strike them as " one of the guys" which could prove to your detriment as far as dating goes.

Answer 6

guys that cling to a certain 'type' of girl are out of their minds, why stick with one flavor when there's so many that taste just as sweet in different ways

Answer 7

I think you shouldn't worry ..
be only yourself .. love yourself ..( not being selfish - love really ) ..adn you'll find that you are close to people ..of various types .. and that you love people as well .. real love full of faith and honour..
an important thing is not to follow ( descriptions )..

Answer 8

you..
most any and all
the mean ( truly mean ) ones
the ones that truly hate guys for what ever reason,
other than that..
I love the opposite sex, they are great, I thank God for them each and every day..

thanks
have a great day
smile
good luck

Answer 9

for a friend i don`t care whats she is like if we can talk together and have fun doing it thats all i ask

Answer 10

i like a women who acts as herself, someone who is equal to me , one who loves life