I have cheated on my boyfriend plenty of times but i feel that i really love him but have always thought how can u really love them if u cheat on them untill i was put in that very position
2006-11-24 06:51:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't have a clue about what love is.
2006-11-24 06:53:28 · answer #1 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may really love him, but I don't think you respect him (or yourself) and you take him for granted.
If there were someone better out there, I think you could have found him by now and you're angry about that. So you stay with him but continue your cheating as a way of still looking while enjoying the benefits of someone who obviously loves you or is totally stupid for putting up with it.
Either leave him and go looking without the safety net, or quit looking and try to be the partner to him that you should be.
2006-11-24 07:00:06 · answer #2 · answered by Goyo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating means you care about your own fun more than you care about your relationship or his feelings or your own self respect. You have your own priorities. Or maybe you must cheat to prove you are your own person and no one else means that much.(has power over you)
So I suppose you can have some kind of love for him, but that love dosn't really mean that much to you.
I think cheaters are just born different from straight people, just like the gay.
2006-11-24 06:59:51 · answer #3 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes women cheat for different reasons because something is missing in their relationship. I have cheated on boyfriends before just to get back at them for hurting me very badly. I still had feelings for them the whole time.
2006-11-24 06:54:43 · answer #4 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you can love somebody and still cheat on them, but it is not the kind of love that will last a life time. That kind of love demands respect. You can't cheat on sombody that you love and respect.
2006-11-24 06:54:54 · answer #5 · answered by jwkramer54 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least you are honest with yourself. Are you honest with him? I dont think people in love cheat multiple times. For his sake come clean and tell him about this and then let him decide if he loves you enough to stay with a woman who doesnt respect him enough to be faithful.
2006-11-24 06:55:39 · answer #6 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my opinion is that there is a reason why you cheat on the person you supposedly love....... if you loved him you wouldnt cheat on him obviously he aint doing something right......but if you feel like if you have to cheat the best bet is probably not even being with him.....
2006-11-24 06:55:39 · answer #7 · answered by SHORTY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can also mean you are immature, lack impulse control, and are self-indulgent . I'd say you have yet to grasp the concept of love and what love truly means. You have "feelings" for someone but your behavior is not about love.
2006-11-24 06:55:03 · answer #8 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In a way it shows udont love him as much as u may say u do but than ya u can love them and still like someone else but its not right and it hurts the other person
2006-11-24 06:55:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you loved your boyfriend you wold never do that, You left yourself get in that position, you could of refused.your to blame no one else.
2006-11-24 06:58:28 · answer #10 · answered by tiny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u don't really love him if u cheat on him alot
2006-11-24 06:58:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋