Heres the story...this girl, we always use to go lunch, out to movies, and even the occasional dinner/going out with friends of ours. Everything was really great...she likes to touch me alot, and we always use to laugh....now all thats gone, the past week has been really hard as i dont know what has happened. Her B/f did break up with her, but we use to go on lunches even before that happened. I didnt make the move cause i really didnt want to move too fast for the girl. Im so annoyed at her...she doesnt respond to my txt's, unless its really urgent, and she seems to have gotten real distant from me...i have yet to ask her why, but she works with me, and i dont want to say anything yet...i really like her, and dont know what to do...One thing i noticed though, is shes really nice and laughing to everyone else...but shes now got a awkward feeling towards me everytime im there, as if she doesnt want to talk to me/ignoring me. and then we think girls arent evil?/.....!
2006-11-24 06:44:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe she really likes you and is just afraid to bring it up right now so she is trying to avoid you a little. Don't ever try to figure us women out, but at least give us the benefit of the doubt. Or ask her why she has been distancing herself from you...communication is well responded to (in person) by women.
Good luck!
2006-11-24 06:49:12 · answer #1 · answered by twest_dgo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I'm gonna be brutaly honest so here we go, since it's apparent that you like this girl are you sure your not reading more into this than whats there? Seeings as how in your perfect world after her and her dude broke up you low key expected to be her shoulder to cry on then she would realize that you've been there since day one and how your such a nice guy and how your nothing like her ex and why wasn't she with you in th first place because she knows you and you guys are so comfortable with each other and so on.........Because I think a small part of this is the fact that their relationship endng didn't result in her turning to as you'd planned so now she's a b*tch. She's going through a tough time right now who says she wanted the relationship to end just because she vents to you about all the reasons she dosen't want to be with him still doesn't mean she really wanted it to be over. You kinda played yourself because your in the "friend" catagory which means it maybe hard for her to look at you in a romantic light. Give her some space your making this about you no offense but you are. Stop taking everything so personal and on top of that whether you know it or not right now your probably wearing your heart on your sleave and your emotions on you face and she can read that so she may be shying away cause she doesn't want you to get the wrong idea. Be cool and give her some space she's still your friend but you need to be a friend to her cause right now your only thinking of yourself and face the fact that you two may be just friends and be okay with that okay,? Sorry if it came off kinda mean but I think you can agree that some of it is kinda true if I can see right through you I'm sure she can. Good Luck!
2006-11-24 15:04:46 · answer #2 · answered by sky g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like since her breakup, she sees you in a new light, but she's afraid of what might happen. She may be waiting for you to make the first move to forward your friendship.
And then, it could be that she is going through breakup issues and doesn't want to burden you with them. But it could be the same thing and she thinks you might want to take his place and she doesn't want that.
Only by coming right out and addressing the issue, will you ever know what is going on. If she needs space, give it to her.
2006-11-24 14:53:31 · answer #3 · answered by Goyo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably is really confused right now.
Like she probably misses her boyfriend a little bit, and she's testing you to see if you really care about her. She's awkard cause she likes you! Just play it cool then in a week or two ask her out on a date.
2006-11-24 14:51:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her boyfriend broke up with her right? She is probably still talking to him and confused. She might be avoiding you because she might have liked you but when reality hit after her boyfriend broke up with her she is just confused because you didn't want anything with her. She could be angry with you though because she thought you wanted more and now her relationship is over possibly because of you and you are not trying to date her. If you like her you need to talk to her.
2006-11-24 14:52:53 · answer #5 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You blew it. All the signs were there to make your move and you wussed out. It's to late now she will just think your a coward. Girls like take charge men. I'm not one but I know thats what they like.
2006-11-24 14:50:07 · answer #6 · answered by jwkramer54 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look maybe she really really liked her bf and you may remined her of him or maybe he broke up with her because of you and if she has said that wasnt the reason people do lie but anyway boy i hope its neither
this coming from a friendly voice (Tiffy)
2006-11-24 14:55:46 · answer #7 · answered by tiffymarie1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her and find someone else. she's going to get jealous
2006-11-24 14:53:57 · answer #8 · answered by pany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not gay and you are making her very uncomfortable. Knock it off.
2006-11-24 14:50:37 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD PROBABLY TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL AND ALSO SEE HOW SHE FEELS ABOUT YOU AND MAYBE YOU SHOULD CONSIDER SHE BROKE UP WITH HER BF AND YOUR A GUY
2006-11-24 14:50:10 · answer #10 · answered by big Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋