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Run 5 miles a day with the girl you liked, to get to know her better b4 you asked her out?? Why or Why not?? Does it mean you want a real relationship or sex?? He has been doing this for a month.
I am sick and tired of guys dating me cuz they think gymnasts are good at sex. Does he seem serious?

2006-11-24 06:39:47 · 20 answers · asked by Nicky 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

If he asks me out again should I say yes?? Does he seem like he will mind the fact that I am a gymnast, surfer, lax player, and snowboarder.

2006-11-24 06:43:21 · update #1

20 answers

At least he runs.

2006-11-24 06:42:03 · answer #1 · answered by draftboyg 4 · 0 0

LOL You know, just because you go on a date with guy doesn't mean you have to have sex with him. Try taking the time to get to know the guy before you have sex, that way if he sticks around for 4-5-6 however many months you decide you want to wait before you make a relationship more physical, you have a better chance at knowing if hes there just for the sex. How many guys, if he was only interested in you for sex, would stick around for 5 or 6 months if they weren't getting any action?

2006-11-24 06:50:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You have known him for a month and he waited that long to ask you out? give him a shot but don't sleep with him. and if he asks just keep shooting him down. As for gymnastics, don't mention it if it makes you uncomfortable. I personally don't associate it with sex I associate it as something REALLY cool! I think about how much practice and dedication it must take and how much respect I have for the people who do it. sex never enters my mind. As for this guy, he might want a real relationship so I think you should give him a chance however if he tries to seperate you from your leotard do a backward handspring away from him until he gets the message. THere's this weird little concept about waiting for sex until MARRIAGE. it's an almost dead concept. it's something I'm doing but you might want to join in. It's more fun than anyone ever thinks it is! Join me! we can start our own little cult! LOL! It used to be unheard of to have sex before marriage!

2006-11-24 06:53:56 · answer #3 · answered by KZ 3 · 0 0

I work out almost everyday, if I see someone in the gym I like or want to get to know, I will walk up and talk to her...running 5 miles is silly just to get into her shorts! Gymnasts are nice though.

2006-11-24 06:43:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

There's a Seinfeld show about this and Jerry went out with a Romanian gymnast. It turned out that in Romania they think comedians are great in bed.

Anyway, if he's willing enough to run with you all the time then he either likes your company or that you're running style complements his. Either way it doesn't seem he's only interested in sex.

2006-11-24 06:45:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Maybe he is just looking for a running partner? I wouldn't assume he is only out for sex. If he DOES ask you out then go if you like him and see where it leads. And don't sleep with him for the first few weeks.
You don't have much to go on quote yet, so don't be negative about it or you will bash it before it happens.

2006-11-24 06:43:39 · answer #6 · answered by twest_dgo 4 · 0 0

Most guys I know wouldn't talk for 5 minutes on the phone to get to know a girl better so I'd say he is pretty serious. Date him but don't have sex with him- that's the only way to know for sure.

2006-11-24 06:42:50 · answer #7 · answered by iluvmynotebook 5 · 0 1

there's something about the flexibility and suppleness that drives little boys insane i guess. you'll just have to take him on and see how the thing goes, it'll be obvious quickly if all he wants is sex, then dump him off

I've met some gymnasts who were very good at sex.

2006-11-24 06:43:52 · answer #8 · answered by rchlbsxy2 5 · 0 0

Sounds like he wants to show you that he is willing to do things for you and with you. It does not mean he wants to have sex with you and if it comes up you should know how to say no to him. The gymnist thing is ridiculous like someone obsessing over themselves. You don't want sex so don't worry about what people think about it.

2006-11-24 06:46:23 · answer #9 · answered by Waiting for Madelyn :) 3 · 0 0

If you can't tell from being around him for a month, what makes you think we can tell from the little blurb you jotted down. I can tell from what you wrote, that you aren't ready for sex with him. If you want to date him and find out how he feels about sex, tell him up front how you feel, and see what reaction you get.

2006-11-24 06:44:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

so you're the one who is thinking about sex, and he might not even have it in mind, he prob. wants a true relationship, you women make me sick, all you think about is sex

2006-11-24 06:42:20 · answer #11 · answered by Santa Clause 1 · 0 0

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