I made a mistake and did this guy wrong he acted like we werent really commited but when i left it really hurt him and when i left and it hurt him i realized that mabey he really did love me like i loved him so i came back now I have talked to him once and seen him once he said to call his moms since he dont have a phone and ive called a million times and he hasnt called me back ive also went by his house alot of times and hes never there or doesnt answer the door one mabey i hurt him to bad and hes just mad i dont know so should i continue to call and go by his house or just leave him alone
2006-11-24 06:36:37 · 20 answers · asked by mystical 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
After a million calls and no response, I think it's time to give it up.
2006-11-24 06:40:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think this guy is sure what he really wants. If you leave him he gets all sad and then you go back to him and he seems to dissapear all of a sudden?
I mean if you guys got back together and he hasnt been really been showing you that he cares about you I expect him to try to work harder to make things work since he was slacking.
I would personally leave him! I don't have time to play little games. If he was serious it would show regardless.
but that is up to you
and I wish you Luck
2006-11-24 14:46:44 · answer #2 · answered by Sugar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds a bit odd, like he is running from you, or maybe himself. If you really think he was serious, send him a letter, tell him how you feel and ask for some sign that he feels the same. Maybe something "silly", like tie a "yellow ribbon" around a tree or something.
2006-11-24 14:41:52 · answer #3 · answered by Josh B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor girl! Lost in self pity. Be self assertive, forget this guy. It sounds that from your point of view if you lost this guy, you will never get another. Because you hurt him, you want to correct it. Forget the restoration, he thrive on trauma to grow strong. Allow him the opportunity to suffer ,he needs it.
2006-11-24 14:52:55 · answer #4 · answered by Wicus v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just wait and if he realy does love you too then he will come back to you but if not just let him go but most guys will definantly come back either that or wait a week and if you dont hear anything from him try again if still nothing then try your best to move on
2006-11-24 14:46:47 · answer #5 · answered by kristi h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop calling ... leave him a lone .. you hurt him and nothing you say right now will make it right ... he will most likely never come back to you ... once someone is hurt they very rarely go back to the person who did the hurting.
2006-11-24 14:38:45 · answer #6 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So u called, u passed by..., good , great, enough! I think he got the point that u care and u want him. Now it's his turn to take it or leave it...so he should be the one to act now, it's his turn.
2006-11-24 14:46:02 · answer #7 · answered by GucciRush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WOULD MOVE ON TO A FRESH START WITH SOMEONE ELSE , YOU MADE A MISTAKE AND TRYING TO GET BACK WITH HIM , IS HURTING HIM MORE THAN ANYTHING , BECARFEFUL HE DOESN'T FILE HARASSMENT CHARGES AGAINST YOU.
HE COULD HAVE SOME OTHER GIRL IN HIS LIFE ..MY OPINION MOVE ON!
2006-11-24 14:40:14 · answer #8 · answered by SWM 38 _4_ YOUNG GF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have another love in his life, or maybe the past is best forgotten.
2006-11-24 14:38:58 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ ღAngelicaღ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In future think before saying !
2006-11-24 14:40:29 · answer #10 · answered by Romps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋