My stepsons father (wifes boyfriend) went missing shortly before his birth, I married his mother a couple of years later, we now have an infant and twins on the way, I think my stepson would be better off in care and we can then concentrate on having a proper family life without distraction. I have yet to convince his mother but I usually get my way - If possible I would like to get the deed done before christmas - what do you think?
2006-11-24 06:33:15 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think if you are not on a wind up you are a total BASTARD.Does your wife know that you want to put her son away and that you are harbouring these potentially harmful thoughts towards this child.I am reporting you and if I knew your address I would report you to the authorities.Hopefully the child's mother will wise up and get rid of you before Christmas,it would be the best present that her son could get.!
2006-11-24 07:39:30 · answer #1 · answered by Pocket Battleship 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You totally disgusting irresponsible man. Not only should your stepson be housed elsewhere, but I suggest that your wife and children go with him. Has it occurred to you (obviously not) that the child's whole life was disrupted by you coming on the scene in the first instance and you probably made no effort whatsoever to get to know or befriend the boy before marrying his mother and turning his life upside down. He is no doubt afraid of you and with good reason considering your proposed future action. You propose to separate a small 5 year old boy from the only carer he has known and toss him like an unwanted puppy into the garbage. Has he any grandparents who love him and to whom he can go? The sooner away from a cretin like you the better he will be. I hope someone from Social Services is reading this website. You truly ghastly little man.
2006-11-24 06:46:00 · answer #2 · answered by Joanne E 3 · 5⤊ 2⤋
First issues first you do no longer say how long it rather is been. I had a similar issue with my now 8 year previous destiny stepdaughter. She became 5 as quickly as I met her and that i observed that she somewhat would not consume good nutrition. She needed junk and thats what her mom became feeding her. We began inclusive of her in cooking the nutrition. She became extra prepared to purpose new ingredients that she helped to coach. whilst we do flow out she is authorized to order what she might like yet she is often asked to purpose something new, the two off her fathers plate or mine, and from time to time my boys will grant er something new that they recognize they like. Our mealtimes are plenty extra useful because of the fact the youngsters all help cook dinner, chores in the kitchen are assigned my age, my oldest is authorized to apply a knife and the extra youthful ones are no longer however the sons and daughters are in charge for laundry each and all the dishes (minus knives) that are used jointly as cooking so there is way less for mom to do after dinner.
2016-10-17 11:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of stepfather are you? don't you have any heart at all.
He is your wife's son and if you are going to prove that you love his mother then you better accept the kid. Its not his fault that he is alive. come on give the kid a chance of proper live. Give him the chance of having a father coz he lost one already he can't afford to lose another. If his annoying just let him be worst days are going to be over soon. There is time for everything now is the time of heartache and sorrow so please look on the bright side. I hope you take my advice coz love is the greatest gift a human being could ever receive.thanks for your time
2006-11-24 08:01:59 · answer #4 · answered by Brenda M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When it comes to your wife's children beware.A child is not a object that can but shunted into care because it suits you.The social services will start looking into all aspects of your marriage,all of your children,they will want more than the reason you are giving before taking such an action
2006-11-24 06:42:48 · answer #5 · answered by barnowl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that perhaps the boy can tell that you don't love him and he is trying to get attention from you, by being annoying. Try being a father to the boy, watch him and see some things that he likes and get involved in that. This is a little boy who needs a father figure in his life, someone to play ball with him, wrestle with, even someone to disipline him. Putting him in a home would sorta be like throwing away garbage. You married his mother, and he needs her more than anything. Don't split up the two, it'll come back to haunt you some day.
2006-11-24 06:39:09 · answer #6 · answered by Be Still and know He's God 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
With all due respect; I would highly recommend that you check yourself into a mental institution for the criminally insane!
The boy is an innocent child. Your comment "I usually get my way?" You're a simple minded, shallow, self serving piece of low life excuse for breathing flesh.
You actually bred with this woman to bring children into the world? You both need to be sterilized.
In any event this is what I think. You asked. You digest it.
I hope that this little boy is not being abused by you or his mother. The thoughts that you have are gut wrenching. "Get this deed done before Christmas"........seek professional mental help. Ask them to lose the key to your cell and this world will most definately be a brighter place.
2006-11-24 06:40:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
can I say this one its bad enough that his own father has left him, an I personally have been on both sides here,his own father leaving is bad enough but you have kids on the way he is bound to feel pushed out anyway, an by your attitude I can say that your attitude does not help an will make the boy even worse behaved,you also have to remember you knew she had a son whe you met her, when you married her, an that your wife and her son come as a package, if you havent gotten on with the boy from the start maybe it would have been better to find someone else.And also i have to say ANY ONE ANY MAN CAN BE A DAD IT TAKES A REAL MAN TO BE A FATHER, WHETHER THEY ARE BIOLOGICALLY CONNECTED OR NOT.
2006-11-24 10:54:24 · answer #8 · answered by simplyCj 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u JACK@$$!
how could u do or say such a thing?
"i usually get my way" <<<<
UR NOT A GOOD DAD!
you called him a "distraction"<<<
before the holidays on top of it....U JERK!
Obviously you can only think about YOUR SELF and your wants.
Your like a five yr old child with instant gratification on the mind.
Would you like to be alone on Christmas?! ...i think not!
and with ppl you dont know...WTF?!
a "proper family" would be one with out the likes of YOU in it.
and the only thing that is "annoying" is YOU.
I hope you DONT get what you want this Christmas and i hope your wife gets some sense and leaves ur sorry behind!
Oh and I hope ur step-son permanently hurts you in your baby making parts...U DONT DESERVE CHILDREN ANYWAYS!
2006-11-24 07:44:37 · answer #9 · answered by frostie21 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
You are cruel, very cruel. You should have known before that if you wanted to marry this woman you would need to accept her son as well. Think about how he feels. He already lost his father - do you want to take his mother away from him too? You need to start giving him some love and treat him as part of the family, because he is part of that family whether you like it or not. Wanting to eliminate him is just being selfish, and I hope your wife loves her son enough not to do that.
2006-11-24 06:42:17 · answer #10 · answered by *shine* 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋