Does this playboy likes me?

Question

I'm seeing a guy as a friend for few months now.
He's very kind to girls, he's good looking and popular with them.
It's hard to tell he likes me or not because he's kind to all the girls. I like him a lot.

He calls me 2,3 times a week,
We went out together most of the weekend,(I met all his mate)
He follows me in the club or pub,
He looks jealous when I spoke with other guy in the pub,

I stayed his place and we had morning cuddle, but no kiss,
He was exchanging phone number with other girl in the pub,
He talks a lot about himself and not much time to me to talk,

Do I have to be careful with him or shall I go for it?

Answer 1

Be cool he might like you and think your a cool chick to hang with but isn't looking for anything serious right now. Men tend to play it how they see it know what I mean? When they meet a chick they rarely go into it thinking hey she's gonna be my woman. Don't freak out or even take it personal when he talks to other girls you two aren't dating nor have you established any real connection between one another to where you should even feel disrespected by things like that. Us women tend to jump to conclusions too quickly which is why men usualy start to shy away. Just because you spent the night with him or you guys slept together doesn't men your in a relationship of any kind now besides friends. It was your choice to go over there. My advice to you is be cool and keep playing it that way you have don't freak him out and start acting all jealous over things you have no right to be jealous over. At some point if he's intreseted in you even remotely in that way, he'll notice out all of the chicks he's been hanging out with besides you, your the only one that hasn't tried to get all clingy or pesty and then he'll realize hey she's cool, she knows how to handle herself and also threw out that time you guys have been getting to know each other so he feels closer to you so he's gonna start wondering well hell if she hasn't been acting pressed is there someone else that ocupys her time when I'm not around? And then if he's feeling you he start investing way more time and want to take it to the next level. But don't even go that route if you can't handle it I suggest you actualy start to date other dudes and stuff but trust me this will work if you want him.

Answer 2

for some men, the chase is better than the catch-he definitely sounds like a player, if u guys are "dating" or go out together it's not the fine gentleman's way to go plying on other females while u are there, and letting u see it, then going home together and sleeping in the same bed, with or without a kiss.. i dunno, but i reckon u wouldn't be asking this question if u didn't know the answer yourself-be careful girl.
ur probably just the next notch on the list...he'll take it slow giving u as much time as u need and then maybe drop u like a hot potato when u guys land in the scratcher... it's the chase
or maybe he's the jealous kind, and is trying to make u jealous by flirting with other girls in front of u to see what ur reaction is, and to tell or find out if u are interested in him or not...maybe he's just as uncertain of ur feelings towards him as u are of his.. i mean sleeping in the one bed after so many months and no kiss?????? no sex i understand but if u really like the guy and sleep in the one bed, then a kiss is only natural..
why not just ask him out straight, as i said, maybe he's not a player and then u'd be missing out on a good guy...
only u can tell! good luck and have fun but be careful...:)

Answer 3

The ones I've seen don't wear much. In fact, they look pretty much naked. I'm sure that they must wear something when they head out of Hef's mansion on Lakeshore Drive, but that's pure conjecture on my part. For all I know, they go shopping naked too. Except for maybe a cashmere sweater or something. Wait! I remember that there's an official Bunny costume involving rabbit ears and a powder puff tail, but this is mainly for the cocktail lounge.

Answer 4

Be careful with that guy, he has a problem with ATTENTION from other women. And when your not giving him the time of day he does get a little jealous when you start talking to other guys.

So do your self a favour and be your self don't stop your happiness cuz he doesn't want to talk to no one but him!

When you are spending time with him don't hold back cuz his NOT!!

Answer 5

if you spent the night together and he did'nt have the courtesy to kiss you and walk you home, he's not a gentleman for a start he's neither a player he is by all reasoning a scumbag. avoid him like the plague

Answer 6

He does sound like a player but as long as you know this and can handle it, go for it. You only live once so have fun whilst you can.

Answer 7

You have said it all,he is a play boy have fun but look for the real thing and do your self a favour

Answer 8

Don't be surprised if you're just another name on his list. He doesn't like you as much as he likes the game. I wouldn't even bother seeing him- he's a waste of time.

Answer 9

honey, don't waste your time, it sounds to me he's a player. if i were you, i'd find someone else who only wants to see U and not other girls every week. i don't want your heart to be broken....your still young..theres other men out there who will treat you better.

hope that helps!

Answer 10

wow he sounds gay. You might think no way! but yes way or which I dout hes not gay he wants you to make a move .or take things slow