my husband thinks that getting kicked in the balls by a girl is an experience most boys go though, and its just a learning experience. i don't know if i agree, but think our son is a bit too young psycologically to handle that sort of thing anyway. so my question is, at what age/ grade do you think its fair game for a boy to get kicked in the balls for harassing behavior?
also, at what age/ grade do you think the average boy gets kicked in the balls by a girl for the first time?
2006-11-24 06:30:58 · 24 answers · asked by carol h 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Are you insane!!!!
A boy should NEVER be kicked in the balls by a girl!!!
I've never been kicked in the balls by a girl or woman in my entire life. And, if I ever did, I'd forget my rule that I never hit a woman, and I would break that chick's ankle with a quickness!!!
You are sick, and I hope your son gets taken away by Administration for Childrens Services!!!
2006-11-24 06:34:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Okay first off never even mention that dark subject EVER again. You women don't seem to realize how sensitive we are down there. And your husband is insane for thinking that this is a common thing to happen. We may get a soccer ball launched there, yeah but never kicked. Oh yeah the only time it would ever be acceptable to kick a GUY in the nuts is if he just raped someone alright!
2006-11-24 08:19:28 · answer #2 · answered by maxjdude 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I really would like to say never, but it really does happen. Its imaturity really both boys and girl. But the boy needs to be taugh that his actions have consequences. If he bothers a girl- right or wrong, some girls will kick or hurt him in that area. He needs to be mindful of his behavior. I have a son and daughter. My son unfortunatly exprianced this first hand and hand from some female. I got the call from school and had to take him home. Thank god he was ok. Very scary, not funny. But he was bothering the girl, her reaction was wrong, but it happened. He knows better now. He is 11. Sorry for rant! But to andwer question. It shouldnt happen, but usually if it does, it happens around puberty.
2016-05-06 15:51:20 · answer #3 · answered by J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that it is fair at any age for a boy to be kicked in the balls. there are a lot of reprecussions physically for a boy and it can result in damage to a young boy. Also, I think that people think it's ok for a girl to kick a boy in his balls, but what if a boy kicks a girl in her vagina? I have a feeling he'd get in a lot more trouble.
2006-11-24 06:38:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
It is never good to get kicked in the balls, but it happens... Usually during high school, when the guys are joking around, bugging the girls when one of the guys says the wrond thing. It happens to just about every guy who interacts with girls. And it is a learning experience!!! This usually happens between grades 9-11
2006-11-24 08:59:31 · answer #5 · answered by JB 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's never okay for a girl to kick a guy in the balls. Your husband is a masochist. That kind of pain is something like the pain associated with child-birth, being that no girl can ever know exactly how much it hurts to be kicked there and no guys can ever know how painful it is to deliver a baby.
Please don't put the idea in your sons head that it's inevitable that he will be kicked in the balls. Seriously, what kind of parents are you?
2006-11-24 06:35:22 · answer #6 · answered by I Am Legend 5 · 7⤊ 0⤋
To consider kicking your son in the balls would seem to indicate that you are too immature to be a parent.
By doing this, you could cause permanent injury, and it may also give your son the idea that it is ok to do this sort of thing.
I hope, for your sake, you are joking. If not, you are sick.
2006-11-24 06:44:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
If a male is trying to physically overpower a female or is going to strike her, any part of his anatomy is fair game. But those would be the only times.
I think that most males don't get kicked in the balls, but if they do it's probably when they're well past puberty, have been drinking, and think they can macho their way past a female's defenses.
2006-11-24 06:40:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 0⤋
There is never a good age to cause injury to anyone. No matter what he does there is no point kicking him where it hurts him most. Instead use the verbal attack on him person. Sometimes words cut deeper than a kick.
2006-11-24 06:37:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 0⤋
Well it may happen but you shouldnt be promoting it!! It shouldnt but it might and you should have nothing to do with it. And where in the world did you get the idea that all kids go through that? At my school that never happened parents actually punished their kids on their own for being mean.
2006-11-24 07:55:04 · answer #10 · answered by Squall Leonhart 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋