My Cousin is a big girl only because her boobs are huge and she doesn't even look that big but yet people are talking about how fat she looks. what can I do to help her?
2006-11-24 06:26:43 · 13 answers · asked by serenelady 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I agree, why wont EVERYONE just shut up!
2006-11-30 02:11:54 · answer #1 · answered by farharringsingslia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately people these days are hung up with looks and appearance and have forgotten to see a person for what they are in their heart.Tell your cousin to just ignore them,,looks always fade,but if you are good in your heart that will never change
2006-11-24 14:35:41 · answer #2 · answered by hekler1873 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they are jealous cuz her boobs are big. maybe your cousin also has sexy curves. maybe those people also notice other people admiring her figure. its hard to know what to say. sometimes its just a cruel world out there. maybe she has to just avoid those type of people. you are only young once and life is too short for your cousin to be around those negative people.
i am also curious to know the age of your cousin. wish u had mentioned it. sounds like she is a teen.
2006-11-24 14:31:57 · answer #3 · answered by havingfun 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You cant tell everyone to shut up, because most of the people are apparantly doing it. Its rude, awful and most definantly hurtfull. The only thing you can do for your cousin is be there for her when she feels down and stick up for her when people put her down. That VERY sweet to do... trust me...
2006-11-30 12:24:50 · answer #4 · answered by Saby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people make fun of someone else's image because they are not comfortable with their own. There is an old saying--"You can't judge a book by its cover"--remember that.
2006-11-24 14:40:06 · answer #5 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
image isn't everthing people have feelings and people are different on the inside those other people are wrong because some people may not appreciate how they loook either
look at it this way
and ugly person says another person is ugly
it doesn't make sense
2006-11-24 18:13:39 · answer #6 · answered by jkchen1114 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should defend her and tell the people who talk about her to mind their own damn business
because some people truthfully don't like their image so they talk about others to make
themselves feel big.
2006-11-24 14:30:25 · answer #7 · answered by PrettyEyes 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't even acknowledge it. If you acknowledge someone ridiculing you, then it gives them power. (Tell Her) Don't even give them a second glance. Hold your head up high and smile alot! Once they see they can't get to her, then they'll move on to someone else. Just shows how pathetic their lives are.
2006-11-24 14:33:22 · answer #8 · answered by James G 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
People only talk about others to make themselves look good.
2006-11-24 14:28:18 · answer #9 · answered by *~*~*~* 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Because that make then forget about their own defects
2006-12-02 09:03:42 · answer #10 · answered by maruchi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋