I am asking this agian, cause I see there are more people on today, and I want more opions.
2006-11-24 06:04:53 · 39 answers · asked by tdude09 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
If you belive in the Bible like me, its says to wait till after marriage. I think you should save yourself for your wife/husband.
But I am asking you to get other anwsers.
2006-11-24 06:09:51 · update #1
Yes it Might be hard to wait...
Do you want your future wife/husband to have sex with others? and did not save themselfs for you?
2006-11-24 06:11:41 · update #2
Yes. Marriage has nothing to do with sex, IMHO.
2006-11-24 06:06:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
this is the 20th century, sex before marriage is okay as long as you be careful and use protection. Sex is only a word and some people freak out when they hear people are having sex before marriage this isnt the 40's or 50's . I say if the two of you care enough for each other why not? sex is beautiful weather before marriage or after. If you want it i say go for it.
2006-11-24 06:14:53 · answer #2 · answered by blfarris99 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No I do not. 2 reasons. 1)If you live a proper Christian lifestyle then you would not as the Bible is against it. 2)In all reality I had sex before marriage. I thought I was going to marry the guy I was with and I didnt. After that you end up having sex with most boyfriends. It no longer becomes special but common place.
2006-11-24 06:08:22 · answer #3 · answered by travelguruette 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think the decision to enter into a sexual relationship is a very serious one. I would be a hypocrite if I said sex only belongs in marriage, but I think if you are young, you need to think very hard and understand the responsibilities of having sex. Sex is about a lot more than just the pleasure. You have to consider some very serious consequences. You can get all kinds of diseases or pregnant. You also have to consider the emotional effect. I also think everyone should listen to their conscience. If something inside is telling you not to do it, listen to that. You have to be true to yourself. That being said, I think with thought and carefulness, it is not immoral.
2006-11-24 06:10:49 · answer #4 · answered by sngcanary 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you are foolish if you don't. How else can you be sure you are compatible. It would be ashamed to be locked in a marriage where you don't agree on anything sexually. Me I don't have sex in Gods eyes. Sex is fun God gave us sex to enjoy. There is nothing wrong with sex before marriage. God doesn't tell us sex is wrong before marriage. There are many of Gods children who engaged in sex outside marriage including Mary the mother of God with the Holy Spirit. God didn't say it is ok for me to have sex outside marriage but not for you. I don't agree that sex is just a word. It is much much more than a word for me. Read your bible. God bless kisses Betty.
2006-11-24 06:25:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very important to have sex before marriage. You should never agree to marry someone until you have had sex together, to see if you are sexually compatable. If you wait until you are already married to find this out, you may find yourself stuck in an unhappy marriage.
2006-11-24 06:34:13 · answer #6 · answered by sudonym x 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's fine. I think sex is fine before marriage as long as you are happy and responsible about it. And I think first time sex (and ideally any sex) should be well thought-out before the final step is taken, and love should definitely be the reason.
2006-11-24 06:20:17 · answer #7 · answered by lady_s_hazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think it is ok for sex before marriage. Sex should be between a husband and wife only. God what ever happened to values in society?
2006-11-24 06:08:31 · answer #8 · answered by baddrose268 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No, wait until after marriage.
You don't need to worry about child support if things don't go well and in God's Eyes you must wait unitl you are married.
2006-11-24 06:44:47 · answer #9 · answered by DaClint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not "right", because it is a sin. i'm not saying i'm free of that sin, only that i'm aware of sex being listed as a sin in the good book. i certainly understand the many, many reasons why we toss this sin aside. the Bible does say it is better for a woman to be miserable in her marriage than to have sex outside of marriage. (obviously not a direct quote)
2006-11-24 06:12:05 · answer #10 · answered by sweet_shy_blondie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No it isnt right. 1) Your boyfriend wont support you
2) you wouldnt know what to do
3) you'll wind up dropping out of school
4) No $ to support the baby
5) you'll loose your family in a sense
6) you might make wrong choices with the baby
7) you'll regret it all your life
8) the baby when it grows older might start to believe that they were a mistake.
2006-11-24 06:09:24 · answer #11 · answered by focused on education 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋