ok just last week i had 2 great late night phone calls wit my bf that were awesome & i cherished it so much.our situation is kinda confusing.now this week monday i called after skool & we had a great time.it was cut short cuz of plans4 homework & blahblah.& then. monday nite i called again & he said."oh i have 2 do homework & imma sleep early 2nite"
and we said goodnight and we sounded happy and lalal all lovey dovey.then tuesday.i called he said he was tired and he was all grumpy & was half asleep while iw as talking but he didn;t want me 2 go. so he all of a sudden said imma call Alex &see if he wants 2 play football.call me bak in 5 min.and i did and he sounded so not tired anymore..*suspicious* & he said imma go hang wit alex i'm leaving now!so then.. i don't call him bak till 2day friday cuz of holidays.& he said like really fast hey i can't talk to you right now i'm waitig on a call from calvin cuz we're planning to hang out."i asked if i could call tonite he said yeah....help?
2006-11-24 06:04:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we;re not some fling.
we;ve had like this relationship on and off liek 3 times. and we;re not offically dating but we;re working on rebuilding the whole friendship thing and trust and talking. is he still interested in me? is he making excuses? or am i calling at bad times?=(
2006-11-24 06:05:49 · update #1
ok. heres the thing boys aren;t allowed to call me!!
at all. and we don;t talk in skool... its cuz.. well. long story but. he;s not allowed to call me so i have to do the calling. and i layed off for like 2 days!
2006-11-24 06:09:55 · update #2
well it looks like he is not so sure if he is getting anywhere withyou, so therefore he thinks should also hold on his friends for if there comes no outcome of this rebuliding then will not be left alone. So he is not giving up on his friends and yes he is still intrested in you.
2006-11-24 06:10:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to let him initiate some phone calls. Don't call him for a while. Distract yourself with something or someone else. You will find out if he is interested if you wait. Start by telling yourself that you aren't going to call him for two days. It's just a place to start. Then, three days, and so on. After a while, if he's not calling you, you will have your answer. Best wishes! You deserve to be treated like a princess!
2006-11-24 06:17:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be annoyed by you if you call too much, so try to really think it over before you call him. If you're trying to rebuild the relationship between you two you should let him know so he can put some effort into that. If he is making up excuses there has to be reasons. Maybe he just wants more "hang with guys" time. Communication is major... make him talk to you! If your ever going to solve this your gonna have to talk.
2006-11-24 06:13:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 20:13:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ease on the calling. Take a step back. He seems to be torn between his friends, obligations, and you. He may like you but feel that things are moving too fast or that he may have to sacrifice his friends and time. So maybe just a call or text every few days or next week. He will wonder what happened and have to decide if he wants to lose what you had.
2006-11-24 06:13:21 · answer #5 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
he should be calling you. but seeing as you aren't allowed to take calls, he should be making plans with you in person and following through.
it's not that he's not interested, it's that he's not interested ENOUGH.
I know you don't want to hear this, but it sounds like you are the one persuing him, and he may actually subconciously lose interest when a girl does that to him... it's like there's no chase for him anymore. It might even be a bit more of a nuisance to him. I would back off a bit and see what he does.
All in all, he sounds like a teenage boy that wants to spend time with his friends.
2006-11-24 06:23:07 · answer #6 · answered by carlaerickson 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is making excuses he prob wants his freedom to hang with his boys but he wants to keep you on a string and chasing him dont call him for like a week let him call you if he asks wh u havent called tell him its cause u always seem to catch him at bad times so you figured that you would give him space. The best way to find out if they really want u is to seem not interested or bothered one way or another if the relationship works out. Do you first
2006-11-24 06:10:51 · answer #7 · answered by tang 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He has you HOOKED is all this situation sounmds like to me. I have played this game with several girls when I was younger and a playa. Some guys know how to make a girl chase them and we eat it up. Best advice I can give you is to stop chasing him and seeming so clingy. Try reversing the game and make him chase you. Girls are naturally good at that. That is why so very few of us guys are good at it. If he really likes you then he will come around. Once you feel like he has chased you enough, set some ground rules with him like he better stay interested in you this time and if you feel like he isn't then that will be the last time you will go through this escapade with him. There are planty of other guys out there that will stay attentive and want your dedication at trying to mak e a relationship work. I know because i quit playing that game and have severakl great relationships since i quit. Good luck. Later....L.G.
2006-11-24 06:20:16 · answer #8 · answered by michael a 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't think he is interested in having the same kind of relationship with you that you want to have with him so he is as you say blowing you off maybe he is telling the truth but there is no doubt about it he is avoiding you. Maybe you could talk to him and say I know you are not interested in rebuilding our relationship because of your actions and that is okay but I would still like to be your friend and spend time with you even if it isnt like it used to be. I think you are a great person and I respect your decisions. Next time however I would prefer you tell me how you feel instead of blowing me off and leaving me to guess and figure it out.
2006-11-24 06:13:44 · answer #9 · answered by Waiting for Madelyn :) 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Well could be that you have called at bad times...But see he didn't you to hung up that time...But why not call him and ask him when can u all talk and ask him straight out....What he wants between u 2...Maybe u shouldn't waist your time waiting for him....But first talk to him to see what happens...
2006-11-24 06:24:52 · answer #10 · answered by Short13 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋