Hi, I have this gf, we had problems in the past mainly for a an ex-wife of mine, messing around & disturbin our relationship, we had a big fight, after that she wanted to leave, she nows tells me that she doesn't trust me anymore, I swear to god I haven't cheat on her, I really love her with all my heart & had been trying to reconcile, now she tells me that she's confused, that wants to stay away for a while, think again, know if she really loves me and can get over our problems, there's also an ex-boyf of hers, trying to take advantage of the situation, past week she almost make an stupidity (sleep with another guy, i found out and stop it, I don't want that an asshole take advantage of her confused feelings and hurt her, or worse just use her), I gave her an engament ring, I want to marry her from the botton of my heart, what could I do, leave her alone so she discover by herselft what she really feels, try to stay close and take care of her, or leave it alone forever?
2006-11-24 05:58:09 · 5 answers · asked by erck78 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave her alone. Let her figure out for herself what she wants.
2006-11-24 06:02:55 · answer #1 · answered by Optimistic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is to stand by her,be there for her always.Your love and care can make her realise the truth that she means a lot to you.But at the same time,i request you to give her space and time.she might be going through confusions regarding what to do with life.so give her time and space to decide what she really wants.She will realise that you are someone whom she can always rely on.Your care can rebuild the lost trust.Tell her honestly that you wanna share your life with her.Let the conversation be simple.avoid arguments or fight,shame,blame coz that may push her further away.Consider this the right time to give love to her and hope for the best!!!
2006-11-24 14:11:02 · answer #2 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im going to tell you something you dont want to here and im telling you this because im going threw something bad as well have you ever heard if something streese you out get ride of it and if something makes your life easyer keep it i think you know what to do you just dont want your heart to break well neather do i but sometime we have to move on trust me on this please im 24 and iv been threw more than most 40 year old you have to let it go good luck
2006-11-24 14:05:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should visit her, but wen you're next to her, just hold her. if she cries, give her ur shoulder to cry on, and tell her its ok, and stuff like that. but if she doesnt want to say anything, dont force it out. kiss her and let her no that whatever happens, ur there for her
2006-11-24 14:01:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she loved you she wouldnt attempted to sleep with that dude, confused my ***....shes probally stringing one of the two along incase one fails, Chicks arent a farcry from dudes.....
2006-11-24 14:02:52 · answer #5 · answered by Hex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋