a question for christians?

Question

now lets say that god is real and i was married and my wife wasnt religious but i was and when we died i went to heaven and she went to hell and i went to this god and i said to him/her/it this isnt heaven without my wife can you bring her up here now would he do it? just to make me happy thank you in advance for your time

Answer 1

Have you seen the movie "what dreams may come" With Robin Williams, and Cuba Gooding Jnr? Very similar scenario

Since the movie is up for questions regarding spirituality, below are some scriptures from the holy bible that may or may not answer your question. Each person is responsible for their own life and can't be saved through someone else at the resurrection.

Matthew 22:30 (New International Version)
30At the resurrection people will neither marry nor be given in marriage; they will be like the angels in heaven.

Matthew 22:31-33 (New International Version)

31But about the resurrection of the dead—have you not read what God said to you, 32'I am the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob'[a]? He is not the God of the dead but of the living."

33When the crowds heard this, they were astonished at his teaching.


Numbers 18
Duties of Priests and Levites

1 The LORD said to Aaron, "You, your sons and your father's family are to bear the responsibility for offenses against the sanctuary, and you and your sons alone are to bear the responsibility for offenses against the priesthood.

To obtain a full understanding of these scriptures read the chapter before. For more on this subject visit the website provided below.

Thank you

Answer 2

Unfortunately no. She had the chance and she made her choice. It actually says in the Bible "Do not be yoked together with unbelievers, for what do righteousness and wickedness have in common" 2 Corinthians 6:14. It's written because it's true. I didn't realize it until I lived it. I am married to an unbeliever and it is so hard to know that I might spend eternity without him and also that he might influence our children to follow that same path. I can't stand the thought. I don't ever blame God though and never will. All I can do now if live like God would want me to and show my hubby my faith without forcing religion on him. I go to church and church functions, read my Bible and pray , but I never push him to do anything. I pray that God will open his heart and I pray that God will surround my husband with people that might change his mind. Just a side note, in a believers mind, by the time you get to Heaven you will be so excited to be with God, He will be all you concentrate on. God is our creator and we will want to spend all our eternity with Him. Hope I helped.

Answer 3

Your question shows that you are misinformed.
First of all, there is no marriage in heaven.
Second, hell is the grave, not some eternal torture pit. If your wife was tossed into the incinerator with death and hell, she's gone for good. There is no coming back from the second death.
Some folks do believe there is another alternative...possibly she is alive somewhere in the new earth that God has created. I don't know too much about that notion, but I wouldn't be too quick to discount it altogether.
Finally, take comfort in this: God has promised to wipe away all tears from our eyes....

I do hope this helps!!

Answer 4

It is possible in only one way: that make she religious like you so you and she would be in the heaven,other than this it will not be possible. How are you sure that your life and her life will end like that? If you went to the heaven this is because you love Jesus and you want to spend time with him not with your wife.

Answer 5

First of all there is God and He is a He and not a she. You are in no way responsible for anyone else's salvation but your own. When you get to heaven by way only of accepting Jesus as your Savior, (and by the way..being religions is not going to get you into heaven) Salvation through Jesus is the only way to heaven, God will remove any and all memory of all of those who did not make it into heaven from your mind.

There will be no sorrow, tears, pain,hunger, evil, etc in heaven. Once we Christians go to heaven, our sole focus will be that "ONLY" of worshipping Jesus as our new husband, for we Chrsitians shall become his bride.

Revelation 19:7 Let us be glad and rejoice, and give honour to him: for the marriage of the Lamb is come, and his wife hath made herself ready.

Revelation 21:9 And there came unto me one of the seven angels which had the seven vials full of the seven last plagues, and talked with me, saying, Come hither, I will shew thee the bride, the Lamb's wife.

The answer to your question is No...

Answer 6

I'm sorry, but that's not how it works. We all have our decisions to make, the most important is weather or not we accept Jesus as LORD, and Savior. I can't make it for my Wife, and she can't make it for me. The decision is for each to make.

I would indeed be heart broken to arrive in Heaven without my Wife, she would feel the same. That is why we must make that decision now, and be ready.

The Bible, in Revelation, says that He would wipe away every tear, I believe those are the tears of those whose Loved Ones didn't make it. Will we forget ? I have no idea, but I do believe God takes away the hurt.

Answer 7

The whole question is based on the supposition people go to heaven.
That is one of the bigger lies that has been spread by false religion.
When we die, we simply cease to exist. We are nowhere, just like it was before we were born.
At some point in the future, God himself will intervene in earthly affairs and make this earth a paradise ....as He intended from the beginning.
Then, those who have died will be re-made.
The Bible calls that a resurrection.
That's why Jesus resurrected Lazarus ...to prove it can be done.
Our future is here on the earth ....transformed to unbelievably wonderful conditions.
Scriptures that back-up this idea can be found at
Psalm 37:10,11 & 29.
Ecclesiastes 9:5,10.
Revelation 21:3,4

Answer 8

well u need 2 tell ur wife that she needs 2 take god into her heart and accept that he/she is real and she will go to heaven but if she doesnt believe she is real why should he/she let her up its not fair 2 all of the believers

Answer 9

You should not assume she would be in hell. Upon her death she will get an opportunity to decide to accept Christ and to repent providing she lived a moral life. If however she did not and she chooses hell then there is no return. Your worldly understanding of things would not exist in heaven. Your graces and love which surrounds you in heaven will be sufficient.

Answer 10

I'm sorry, but I don't believe God would do that. He would be breaking His own rules. How could He be God and bend these established rules to please a few?
This is why Paul speaks against intermarriage of believers and non-believers. The problems created can be immense.
I personally believe that once in Heaven, believers will be given understanding of God's ways beyond what we understand now and we will see things as they truly are.