Should i tell him why i now find him totally unattractive, and that i think he's an insensitive jerk?

Question

Well, my idiot ex is wondering what made him unattractive to me. He put him on himself by

1. When i was sad because my brother moved far away and crying, did he come over and ask what's wrong? No he just complained that i wasn't paying attention to him.

2. When we went on our first date, all he did was talk about how his ex would never go out with him.
This is the TWO worst things he did! The rest of it was little but just as annoying, should i tell him this or keep on ignoring him?

Answer 1

He treated you coldly. It seems he's insensitive at best and selfish to boot.

Were I you, I wouldn't even waste the time, energy, or breath speaking to him again. He doesn't deserve any explanation, And his asking for one from you is just a tactic to get you to talk to him. He's not interested for the sake of self improvement but he knows the first step to getting where he wants to be is to get you talking. Second step is to pretend to understand your response and agree....There is a motive.

Answer 2

If you can give him some constructive feedback on how he comes across as insensitive and self-absorbed sometimes, then yes, talk to him. It might help him realize something he genuinely doesn't see in himself. But, if it's just going to come out as mean, then don't bother.

Answer 3

if you dont tell him it will get boddled up in side and then your blut it out meaner then you would ever expect and youll feel bad then youll appolagize then the s/hit will start agian so just tell him

Answer 4

Totally tell him.

Answer 5

tell him, he might try to correct himself, but just tell him no, it hurt