2006-11-24 05:00:19 · 4 answers · asked by filmstu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have the same question. It's not about sexual gratification, it's about respect. If they cheat, there is absolutely no way they have respect for you. It's impossible.
2006-11-24 05:03:19 · answer #1 · answered by Aegor R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheaters don't place a high enough value on love, honesty, respect, and trust, otherwise they wouldn't cheat. If they truly valued the person they were with, they would realize that cheating on them is a violation of someone they supposedly care about, a violation of love, honesty, respect, and trust.
2006-11-24 06:51:10 · answer #2 · answered by rockdahouse85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one word can explain this ... "LUST" !!!
sorry to burst your bubble like that but it is something i have thought about over and over and over again and again and again for years and years too many times and this was what i decided was the answer, it is like watching a porno and being turned on or being comfortable with some beutifull sexy person hitting on you and flurting with you .... at the end of the day it is only physicial contact , would you have a problem with your partner going for a massage at a massage parlour or if your partner was an actor in a film with sexy scenes + .... there was a sex cult in germany in 1960´s which had over 600 members all having free sex with each other and there was a law there where you could never have sex with the same person in 1 week to avoid coupling , im sure you have heard of it , at the end of the day i tell my self its only sex, like a back massage at a massage parlour, its just another form of pleasurable physicial contact that we all enjoy ,...... if your massuer was giving you a back massage that you somehow disliked would you go to another masseur ? but somehow i am like most people who associate sex with love ,like you too , and i have felt the pain of being cheated on more than twice and yet still i cannot understand why i relate sex to love when most people cheat. so like i said after lots of serious thought that one word with all its elements keeps coming to my mind as the answer of my experiences and it is that word "LUST"
2006-11-24 05:02:07 · answer #3 · answered by insenergy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is that wat happened to u?
2006-11-24 05:02:11 · answer #4 · answered by :D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋