He was riding the bus and he fingured a girl. He beat himself up. Literally. Im still in love w/ him. I took him back and i just want to forget it but i dont think i will ever be able to.Everyone tells me to break up w/ him but i can't. Im in love. What should i do? This happened 2 weeks ago. Is it wrong that i still love him?
2006-11-24 04:57:25 · 13 answers · asked by chelsea_rainey2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes find a new guy
2006-11-24 04:59:18 · answer #1 · answered by justin s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not wrong that you still love him, really, it's only right because if you can lose love for somebody that quick, you really didn't want him. I relate to you totally about the cheating. Give him another chance and if he messes up again than leave him because he's not ready for a real relationship. The key is don't fall madly in love with someone who is not really feeling you, from now always be on point because something could go wrong in the relationship. The worst thing you could do is fall in love and get your heart broken. Just be careful.
2006-11-24 05:23:05 · answer #2 · answered by ADVICEGURL101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to face the facts. Once a cheater, always a cheater. If he was completely happy with you, he wouldn't have even thought about straying. Once he did, he broke your trust. It may hurt to leave him, but in the end, you will move on to bigger and better, and he will just move to the back of the bus [metaphorically speaking that is.]
2006-11-24 05:00:21 · answer #3 · answered by Jenyfer C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater, always a cheater. Don't take him back, unless you like the idea of history repeating itself later on.
If you have any pride, you will let yourself cry over the break-up, you'll lick your wounds and then you'll start a new chapter in your life without the cheater.
Stay strong and true to yourself.
2006-11-24 05:01:24 · answer #4 · answered by montrealissima 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't wrong to still love him, no. But the question is, can u trust him not to cheat again? The old saying is, once a cheater always a cheater.
2006-11-24 05:23:35 · answer #5 · answered by mikey 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes,its wrong..but its simply something we cant help.I know its hard to move on...but u have to eventualy.i still love my bf and he did the worse things to me andcheated on me 3 times but i took him back sooo many times.Its hard to let go of sum 1 u truely love....but we have to move on in the end.U can give him a couple of more chances to change himself but if it continues move on and leave him..ull find better.im here to talk when u need...just got out of a reltionship with the guy i told u about.contact me any time u want.Glad to help=)
2006-11-24 05:22:09 · answer #6 · answered by ramlover_92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong to love him but I would not have taken him back. Whatever excuse he gave you, forget it, it doesn't mean anything. He probably feels now that he can do whatever he wants with whomever he wants and you'll take him back. He wants to have his cake and eat it too.
2006-11-24 05:02:57 · answer #7 · answered by sasha_anton 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should only forgive him if you truly love him and believe in your heart that he won't do it again. But you have to ask yourself why did he do it in the first place? and if he loves you like you love him, why wasn't he thinking about the fact that he would hurt you by doing that?
2006-11-24 05:04:43 · answer #8 · answered by felita2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur not wrong but he is. the sad thing is that changes are he will do it again. so think long and hard about this before making a decision.
2006-11-24 05:00:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love is loving someone without needing them to love you back or actually without expectations
2006-11-24 04:59:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is not a light switch, if he cheated he will do it again, can u handle that? if not dump him and move on life is to short
2006-11-24 05:00:07 · answer #11 · answered by burner377 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋