Ok there is this guy i've been dating for about 9 months now and i love him soo very much.But the thing is in the past he's cheated on me about 3 times and it took me a while to gain my trust back but eventually with time i did.He changed soo much and he became better and didnt cheat on me...but now he wants to leave me and never see me again.It took me a while to get over the heart ache but its coming back again...what do i do..how do i forget...i just dont wanna be hurt anymore...and now im scared to be in a reltaionship again.Im just scared of love and relationships period.How do i forget about him and what if he wants me back?Should i give him another chance like i always have?I just dont no anymore....i want to die it hurts so bad....but i know suicide isnt the answer...what do i do?
2006-11-24 04:54:47 · 11 answers · asked by ramlover_92 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oo and what might make it worse is that he's seeing one of my good friends today that live in my apartment complex and go to my school...so what if they astart dating...everyday is gunna be hell to know there dating cuz i know she likes him..no what do i really do??
2006-11-24 05:03:09 · update #1
Dont wast your time, or your life with this guy...hes just not worth risking your life for!!
2006-11-24 04:57:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, Bless your heart, I can really feel the pain in your words. It's really heartbreaking to love someone when they don't love you back. Love is a choice that two people must make & allthough you've loved him with all your heart he hasn't loved you back. That's not your fault...that's his...he is the bad person cheating on you like he did & now dumping you. I understand your grief - you lost his love - but really this was only half love ....true love would have loved you & honored you & treated you like you're the most precious thing in the world. I know that you loved him so much...and that makes you special..I can see it in your words that you have a love that is true & good in your heart...so you need to let go of this guy & find that guy who will appreciate your specialness & will return to you the kind of love that you will give to him. Love is a risk that we have to take, because to find that special person who can make our life special can be our greatest joy & treasure! Turn your back on the idea of suicide & look to your future...because somewhere someplace there is that perfect man who is looking for someone just like you!......good luck....bye bye
2006-11-24 05:23:19 · answer #2 · answered by Danica Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You remain calm. He cheated on you. Any boy that could do this to you does not deserve to be with you. It seems like the end of the world, I know, but it isn't. We have to wake up every day, and go on with our life. We have to stay positive, and remind ourselves of all the good things, no matter how small and insignificant they may seem. This may seem outdated, but there are plenty of fish in the sea. You may not realize it, but you will find love again. You will be able to move on, as long as you get up and go on your way.
2006-11-24 04:58:32 · answer #3 · answered by Jenyfer C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know this doesn't sound easy but move on. you have to understand that people change for the best in a relationship but it can also cause it to end. im sure there poeple having the same idea as u. yes it hurts, the pain can go away. so the only real thing that can help u know is just to move on.
2006-11-24 04:58:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
once i was in a lock like this but my mom always told me that i need to take a vacation and try not to see anyguysfor a least aweek. my gusse is tjhat he is an alcholicother wise i dont know. good luk try to get rid of him tell that you dont think that he os the best for and just dont stat yeling even if he is.
2006-11-24 05:00:50 · answer #5 · answered by jewel_11cnc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater, always a cheater. definitely don't go back if he asks, and give yourself time. if you want to be in a healthy relationship...you need to be able to support yourself in everyway. you need to be as independent as possible, so that if another guy does leave you...you can stand on your own two feet and move on a lot more easily.
2006-11-24 04:57:49 · answer #6 · answered by CuriousLikeACat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn you depression to anger. he play you and he is still playing you. He look for girl like you to "SUCKER INTO" his game.
He'll play it someone else. don't let him play you. find another man. go out and work the market and get your self some guys. have fun dating. ENJOY LIFE!
life is too short, it's not your job to end it. it will end on it's own.
2006-11-24 05:00:08 · answer #7 · answered by Kenshin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't waste your time on him, go out and have a good time with other guys but don't let your heart get involved just use them and abuse them for a while, play the field.
2006-11-24 05:03:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will be okay. DON'T give him another chance if he comes back. this realtionship is TOXIC. you will find someone that wants you and won't cheat on you. try to occupy your time with things that don't allow you to think about it. again, you will be okay. good luck.
2006-11-24 04:58:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP him u deserve something better ........dont hang arnd his louse memories u will find true love one day jst give another chance
2006-11-24 04:59:17 · answer #10 · answered by psycadelic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋